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Newly Diagnosed with Breast Cancer: Coping with Overwhelming Emotions

MM

Community Member

2 years ago

Good Morning Everyone. I was just diagnosed on Oct 6, 2023. Stage 1, additional MRI. Anxiety does not even begin to explain how I'm feeling.

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That overwhelming feeling after a new diagnosis is so valid and shared by many in this community. The anxiety that comes with those first days can feel incredibly intense, and connecting with others who truly understand this journey can provide comfort and strength during this challenging time.

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TR

Community Member

6 months ago

Hi Mia, Sorry you found yourself with this diagnosis,but you have an amazing support system here. It took me 8 years to Speak about my anxiety and how scared I was once I receive my diagnosis. Your feelings are normal and it get easier once you start treatment. You will look back at this and laugh. I’m was scared that I had convinced myself , that The Huge radiation machine was going come loose from the wall and fall on me. You see I can laugh about this now.

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MM

Community Member

6 months ago

I do chuckle at the irony of being diagnosed during Breast Cancer Awareness Month. Thank you πŸ™πŸ½

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DS

Community Member

6 months ago

Hi Mia. I was diagnosed during Breast Cancer Awareness Month too; DCIS on 10 October. I am scheduled for surgery on 3 November and I’m nervous as this date comes closer but a lot of help from my medical staff has helped some. I have come to believe that surgery is the easy part - it is the residual things ie radiation, hormone therapy, threat of recurrence, etc that I must stay prayed up on. Blessings and light to you through your journey!

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MM

Community Member

6 months ago

Hello Darlene, yes my exact thoughts! My prayers to you for a successful surgery and recovery πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½

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CL

Community Member

6 months ago

Hello Mia, you are not alone! As I went from test to test, appointment to appointment, and treatment to treatment I discovered I was not alone. I am thankful for my family and the Pink Warrior Community πŸ’— I had to talk to myself too knowing God didn't give me a spirit of fear, but power, love and a sound mind. I am praying for you and believe you will get through this season of your life victorious πŸ‘ πŸ™Œ πŸ‘ πŸ™Œ

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MM

Community Member

6 months ago

@Clara, thank you. It's the in between appointments and knowing that the initial information that they gave may very well change. 2nd MRI on Tuesday, this time for both breast.πŸ™πŸ½

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CL

Community Member

6 months ago

Mia I believe that is routine to check both breast. Although I was diagnosed in my left breast my doctor requested 2 additional test of my left breast before my surgery. We are praying for you and desiring the best care for you.

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DS

Community Member

6 months ago

@Mia, thank you for your prayers and well wishes. Had my lumpectomy on 3 November as planned and doc says things went well. I have a follow up on 17 November.

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DC

Community Member

6 months ago

How are you feeling Darlene? I had my lumpectomy on 10/25! My appointment is tomorrow for the results of the surgery!

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MM

Community Member

6 months ago

Hello, had my MRI guided biopsy on both breast yesterday. Sore, but ok as I wait for results πŸ€žπŸ½πŸ™πŸ½

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DS

Community Member

6 months ago

@Danielle - I am doing well. The surgery went well on that Friday and I was able to go to work on that Tuesday. It was rough on both Tuesday and Wednesday but today things have eased up some. I have fibromyalgia to battle with as well so…

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MM

Community Member

6 months ago

Good Morning Everyone...Good News, both biopsies were benign. Now on to scheduling a surgery date.

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MM

Community Member

6 months ago

Surgery scheduled for December 15πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½

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DC

Community Member

6 months ago

@Darlene - That is GREAT news! My surgery was on a Wednesday and I went back to work on Monday! Thank GOD for grace and mercy! I am preparing for a 2nd surgery tomorrow in order to get 2cm clean marginsπŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½ I’m praying that get it ALL right this time! πŸ€¦πŸ½β€β™€οΈ

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MM

Community Member

6 months ago

@Danielle, prayers for a successful surgery and clean marginsπŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½

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DS

Community Member

6 months ago

@Danielle - hope all went well with the additional surgery. My pathology report came back today and I have and appointment with the surgeon on Friday. Praying and hoping for great things for all of us!!

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DC

Community Member

6 months ago

@Mia THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR PRAYERS πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½ I just received my pathology report and I have clean margins πŸ™ŒπŸ½πŸ™ŒπŸ½πŸ™ŒπŸ½ Now I’m waiting to hear from the Oncology Radiologist to discuss next steps!

DC

Community Member

6 months ago

@Darlene - Surgery went well πŸ™ŒπŸ½ No additional pain πŸ™πŸ½ I am so thankful I don’t have to have any more surgeries! Waiting to hear about next steps with radiation.. How did your appointment go?? I too am praying for us ALLπŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½

DS

Community Member

6 months ago

@ Danielle so glad to hear everything went well with you. My appointment went well - margins were clean and received the referrals for both the radiation oncologist and medical oncologist. So on to that next part of the journey.

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DC

Community Member

6 months ago

@Darlene… That is AWESOME news! πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™πŸ½I am so glad to see that you’re able to move on to next steps as well! Have you heard of balloon radiation …my surgeon recommended but said the radiation oncologist will make the final decision! I will share my next step hoping and praying I don’t have to do radiation for too longπŸ€¦πŸ½β€β™€οΈ

MM

Community Member

6 months ago

Hey Everyone, surgery completed Dec. 15. Lumpectomy with Sentinel lymph node removal. I'm at home recovering ... until the next step

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DC

Community Member

6 months ago

@Mia… How was your surgery and how are you feeling?

MM

Community Member

6 months ago

@Danielle, surgery was successful, it's the recovery! Waiting to meet with medical/radiology oncologist.

DC

Community Member

6 months ago

@Mia, oh nooo.. What’s going on with your recovery? My medical oncologist couldn’t do anything for me because my cancer wasn’t hormone driven. I don’t know whether to be happy or sad 😞 I just finished Day 15 of radiation yesterday with 6 more to goπŸ™ŒπŸ½πŸ™ŒπŸ½πŸ™ŒπŸ½ Unfortunately, I’m dealing with congestion, body aches and a headache now. Not a lot of coughing or sneezing but definitely uncomfortable. Do you have to have radiation?

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MM

Community Member

6 months ago

@Danielle, just painful due to the lymph node removal. The swelling and numbness does not make for a good night's sleep. Will have to do radiation, but now double checking HR2 to verify if negative before deciding if chemo will be needed as well.

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