How do I decide on cancer treatment when I'm scared and conflicted?

Making treatment decisions during such an overwhelming time is incredibly difficult, and it's completely natural to feel conflicted when facing something this significant. Many people find themselves reconsidering past statements about treatment when actually confronted with a diagnosis, and that doesn't make anyone a hypocrite - it makes them human. Consider speaking with your medical team about all your options, connecting with other community members who've faced similar decisions, and taking the time you need to process this information with your support system and faith.

You can do all things through Christ which strengthens you. I was in denial until I heard the surgeon say I needed chemo and the oncologist would call me the next. All previous test were negative or inconclusive. I was diagnosed with PCOS as a teen. Did check-ups regularly, had to have 2 D&Cs (2002 & 2004), in 2023 l had a full hysterectomy because of "reoccurring cells". Then I had cancer removed from the neck of my pancreas (after 6 rounds of chemo every two weeks while working 10pm to 6am & taking care of my 90 yo mom), I missed three days of work and retired Jan 2, 2026. I had surgery Jan 5th and have been losing weight since then. This is a scary process, when you have a STRONG support system, it should be easier to accept and press on. No everyone is the same, I know this for a fact. I hope this group will help me stay positive and you too.

Thank you for sharing

Hi Christina - God bless you. I had my diagnosis last Fall and it is paralyzing. But I had the surgery/chemo/radiation and now done and feeling well. Keeping you in my prayers for a full recovery.

Hi Christina! I also have stage 3. I did all the chemo and surgery. I also have little grandchildren that I want to see grow up. The chemo will give you the opportunity to do that. Good luck to you. 🙏