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How do I cope with stage 3C triple negative breast cancer chemo side effects?

TC

Community Member

a month ago

Hi I have stage 3C Triple negative Right Breast cancer and I feel lost and still in a state of denial. I was diagnosed August and started chemotherapy September 4th I go every week and every three weeks I get carboplatin, Ketruda and Abraxane and weekly I get just Abraxene. it’s simply awful. Im in cycle 3 and next Tuesday I will start cycle 4. I have a total of 6 cycle that will need to be compl before I can have the double mastectomy. I was told that I had calcium deposits and they never turn cancerous but that wasn’t true I didn’t have calcium deposits I have three very aggressive lumps that continue to grow while the whole time I thought it wasn’t anything. I had a mammogram that told a different story of what the fast growing lumps were and I passed out once I was told I had cancer. And I haven’t been the same since. My life did a 360 in just a few months with testing and labs Dr visits it’s been a fast and furious ride! I’m struggling with all the symptoms and pain and oh extreme nausea. I’m taking nausea meds as well as the scolpamine patch. pain meds all make me so sick. I’m now dealing with extreme low neutrophils and having to get Neupogen injections which is awful and the bone pain is awful. Claritin isn’t working for the bone pain before nor after the shot. I’m really fighting for my life really fighting😢😢😢

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CA

Community Member

a month ago

Dealing with chemo side effects, especially nausea and neutropenia, requires a team approach with your medical team to find the right combination of supportive medications and timing adjustments. Many patients find it helpful to discuss alternative anti-nausea medications with their oncologist, as there are several options beyond what might initially be prescribed, and for bone pain from growth factor injections, some find relief with different timing or additional supportive measures that the care team can recommend. This treatment phase is incredibly challenging, and reaching out to connect with others who understand this journey can provide valuable emotional support and practical tips for managing day-to-day symptoms.

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KB

Community Member

a month ago

Keep fighting Tonya. Keep asking your doctor for help with your symptoms

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MA

Community Member

a month ago

Hi Tonya, What about your diet. Have you spoken with a nutritionist. Sometimes the chemo is affected by our first.

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IR

Community Member

15 days ago

Tonya, I also have a very aggressive triple negative breast cancer and went through recommended double mastectomies, a full year of aggressively dosed chemo, radiation 3 weeks, added surgery for regional node metastasis, and now am on a PARP inhibitor because I have BRCA 2 that adds to the cancers aggressive behavior. Cancer is a difficult journey and all of us have different pathways. Hang in there. Do as your Oncology team advises… not easy but doable. Keep the faith. Keep active as able. Prayers and best wishes.

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RH

Community Member

15 days ago

Tonya, I went through 6 rounds of chemo before I had a double masectomy 2 months ago. It's a long hard journey. I admire your fighting spirit. Talk to your therapist, family and friends. You're not alone. We will beat this awful disease, together ❤️

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TC

Community Member

15 days ago

@Rhea did u get the expander are u doing reconstruction surgery

NF

Community Member

15 days ago

I also have triple negative cancer started treatment in November had to put port in for the chemo treatments because this is my second time with this 10 years ago remission . they said no longer could I do radiation so I finish my chemo and just had a double mastectomy two days ago expanders put in a lot of pain right now.

RH

Community Member

14 days ago

Tonya, I didn't need the expander. I had enough breast fat to reconstruct both breast. I hear the expander is painful. I had the goldilocks procedure at the same time as the double masectomy. I'm healing well. My shoulder is painful and sore. It gets better every day. I wish the same for you.

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