"Seeking Support and Understanding After Breast Cancer Diagnosis"

Carolyn A, I found a lot of answers on the American Cancer Society website. I do not know what that means but look it up you can find everything on the Internet for breast cancer. There are stages, types and if a lymph node is positive for cancer that puts you in another bracket. It’s all based on size of tumor, type, if genes are involved, if hormones are involved, every little factor adds up to an equation and answer for the oncologist to name/diagnose your cancer. Hang in there, it all is very fast at the beginning with everyone testing and calling you, and then everything slows down to a walk. Just give yourself grace while you get thru this journey.

Thank you so much 💓, Dennie, for your reply. I will check out that resource, and I really appreciate hearing that things will slow 🐌 down eventually. All the best. C.

That happened to me. I got a call from the people who did my mammogram. I was in shock. Didn’t know what to do. She said I need to find an oncologist surgeon. I called my daughter and she ran with it. I got the best surgeon and got in immediately (Thank you God) because someone had just cancelled. By the next week, surgery and results in two. Call around. Get a good surgical or oncologist and get it moving fast.

I was diagnosed six months ago with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer that spread to the pleural space around my lungs. It was like being dropped onto a remote island without a map or language translator! Unfortunately there will never be a “map” for anyone. I like the site breastcancer.org.

@patricia P I think I may have stage 4 metastatic breast cancer in my hip bone. I am so scared. I’m seeing an orthopedic doctor this week. I like the breastcancer.org site too. What has your experience been like these past 6 months?

Tracey Aakre What makes you think you have cancer in your hip bone? How does it feel?

Receiving a cancer diagnosis over the phone is overwhelming, and it's completely understandable to feel shocked and have difficulty concentrating right now. Intermediate nuclear grade typically refers to how the cancer cells look under a microscope compared to normal cells - it's one factor doctors use alongside other test results to plan the best treatment approach, and your medical team will explain all the details when you meet with them after the holiday weekend. This community has many members who have walked similar paths and understand what you're going through, so please feel free to share your thoughts and questions as you process this news.