Going flat after mastectomy: pros and cons from survivors?

This is such an important decision, and it's wonderful that you're reaching out to connect with others who have walked this path. Many community members have shared valuable insights about going flat after mastectomy, including benefits like avoiding potential complications from reconstruction and feeling confident in their choice for their body. Hopefully, some survivors here will share their experiences with both the practical aspects and emotional journey of their decision to help you feel more informed as you work with your medical team.

Hi, like you I was diagnosed with 3+ HER2+ Estrogen+ but Progesterone-. Chemo done last April, and bilateral mastectomy without reconstruction in May. While I was told that removing my left breast (tumor was on the right) would not necessarily decrease the risk of recurrence, I opted to remove both breasts with flat closures. There was definitely a somber feeling of loss that I didn’t expect to linger for weeks post-surgery. With therapy, I’m slowly starting to feel more confident about my decision. For me, all the other “vanity”changes (new clothes, etc) are becoming minute now, and it’s somewhat liberating for obvious reasons. More importantly, it gives you a clearer perspective on things that are personally more important to you moving forward. I hope you find a sound and confident decision and I wish you the best healing outcomes. Good luck on the surgery!