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How do I cope with stage IV colon cancer diagnosis and chemo fears?

MC

Community Member

a month ago

WasJust diagnosed with stage IV colon Cancer that blocked my colon and metastasized in my liver with 8 small tumors. They are doing emergency surgery to remove the baseball tumor in my sigmoid colon so I can start to gain Weight again. I had no symptoms at 50 yrs besides weight loss and I Thought it was from working out. They want to start Chemo right away. I’m Scared to death. My dad died From complications at 84 with same cancer condition. But he was older and Weak.im finally happy again. Any other options? I hate Killing my body to kill cancer, I’m so angry. Bad divorce, lost my dad and then a 16 yr son. I truly think it grew out of stress and grief. But I’m looking for any other option. They say chemo is all that will save me. My life is finally so good again. And I get hit with this. Still going thru the motions. Thank you

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CA

Community Member

a month ago

Facing a stage IV diagnosis along with recent life challenges creates an overwhelming situation that many in this community understand deeply. While chemotherapy can feel frightening, especially given family history, discussing all treatment options thoroughly with the oncology team can help address specific concerns and explore what approaches might work best for this particular situation. The clinical trials community here offers valuable insights from others navigating similar decisions, and connecting with fellow patients who've walked this path can provide both practical guidance and emotional support during this difficult time.

GS

Community Member

12 hours ago

Hi, my name is Glenn and I’m sorry for your situation. Let me tell you something that might make you feel better. I was diagnosed with colon cancer more than 10 years ago. I had the surgery and a few lymph nodes removed and I thought I was done. I thought I beat it a year later. Some small nodules showed up in my lungs. At that point, it became stage four colon cancer. I have basically been on various levels of colon cancer chemotherapy for more than 10 years and I look and feel pretty good. I had no trouble for the most part with any chemo believe it or not. Recently I lost 50 pounds so that’s my challenge right now to gain that weight back. Other than that, I’m looking forward to living as many more years as I can. I value every hour I’m alive. One other tip my friends and some family support me like you would not believe. Make sure you’re not going through all this by yourself. And make sure you’re with a good reputable cancer center and of course oncology doctor that can prescribe and give you the treatment that you need.

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