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How do I cope with breast cancer diagnosis and treatment?

GQ

Community Member

23 days ago

I was told I had DCIS stage 0 Er/Hr positive. I had a lumpectomy done on June 4th that showed I in fact had Invasive ductal carcinoma stage one. Luckily as far as tests have shown, no lymph nodes showed any cancer. I didn't have chemo but am told I have to have 20 rounds of radiation followed by estrogen blocker therapy for 5 years. How do I still not go crazy? I was told "oh you'll be fine" and "it happens sometimes." No one has asked how I felt, what I needed. I've been left alone, made feel like Im a burden and cussed out for being sickand call lazy. Does it get any better? Is it worth all that I go thru? Can someone just please care?

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CA

Community Member

23 days ago

The emotional challenges of a cancer diagnosis can feel overwhelming, especially when those around you aren't providing the support and understanding you deserve. Many people in this community have found that connecting with others who truly understand the experience can make a meaningful difference in coping with treatment and the emotional journey. Consider reaching out through the community forums or support groups where members genuinely care about each other's wellbeing and can offer both practical advice and emotional support during radiation and hormone therapy.

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CM

Community Member

22 days ago

How do you feel ? I wish you could look on the brighter side. No lymph nodes involved which could’ve caused you to have chemo. You could’ve been looking at more rounds of radiation. This said might not help much but I’m a half full kinda girl. It could’ve been so much worse. You will get through this! I was diagnosed on June 18th with DCIS , stage zero. I follow up with my dr on this coming monday, 7/20. I’m hoping my pathology doesn’t show I’m worse like you. But I know I’ll get through it. My mother had her breast removed at 71, I’m 71 also. At that time no chemo and radiation. My daughter however at age 42 had both breasts removed,DIEP flap reconstruction and a hysterectomy. Chemo and radiation. 5 yrs on exemestain. She went through hell but is great now. She’s my rock and confident. She makes me feel stronger. If you need someone to talk to I’m here for you. Unfortunately I have a lot of experience with breast cancer. IM 🙏🙏🙏 for you. Lynne

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GQ

Community Member

22 days ago

Thank you both for responding. I was having a pity party yesterday and had moment of doubt. I'm trying to keep a positive outlook. I've kept a smile on my face and kept thinking good thoughts. I sounded like a Debbie downer and for that I apologize.

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CM

Community Member

22 days ago

Don’t apologize! We all need to feel sorry for ourselves once in a while. And now you’re good. Like a cleansing of the bad mojo!

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ME

Community Member

10 days ago

Oh it could be so much worse!! Lol I've been going through this crap for four years and I've had it ALL! Chemo, radiation THREE times and going for my sixth surgery Monday!! Now if that doesn't make you feel a little bit better idk what would!! It could be a hell of a lot worse! I almost forgot bi-lateral mastectomy tried implants but had to get those removed due to reoccurrence.. You get to keep your hair! There's really no words to describe how you feel when literally all your hair is on the floor looking back at you like a dead cat!! Be thankful every single day you aren't in my shoes!! And I'm still working part time! 25 hours feels like 85 hours! But I need the money because this disease has drained every penny of our savings.. So be glad! I know it does suck...but it really honestly could be much worse

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GQ

Community Member

10 days ago

Omgoodness Melissa. I am gonna be praying so hard for you! God bless you!

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FL

Community Member

9 days ago

I had breast cancer 4 month and 8 week i have to have radiation and i won't wish this on nobody i understand what you are going through you not lazy radiation do damage to your body. Radiation burn your skin fatigue no energy skin peeling off and very sore. So I understand what you are going through because I went through the same thing. Keep praying 🙏 🤲

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