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4 months agoA little about my situation: I'm the first person in my family to get breast cancer. I moved to where I live to support my parents (in their late 80s) Both my siblings have families, and I don't, which was why I was the one that moved up here. My siblings are super supportive, but it really is a challenge for them to come up. My sister came up for the surgery on Wednesday and stayed until yesterday. The issue: I really need to stop using my left arm (lumpectomy and lymph nodes removed), but I need some things done around the house. I live in a small town, so there are no caregivers locally, and I can't afford to pay for someone to come in. Any suggestions?
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Reaching out for practical help during recovery shows real wisdom, especially when managing everything alone in a small town. Consider connecting with local churches, community centers, or volunteer organizations who often have members willing to help with household tasks - many communities have informal networks of people who genuinely want to support neighbors facing health challenges. Social media community groups or neighborhood apps might also help you find trustworthy local people who could assist with specific tasks during your recovery period.
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4 months agoI would suggest any groups in the area (our local pub v's pizza has a charity called v for victory that helps with stuff like that) and possibly church groups??
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4 months agoConnect with your house of worship they may be able to help you
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4 months agoHello, Can you ask the hospital, your team for assistance? It's tough not to have someone when you need something done.
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3 months agoThis is part of my recovery concern. I’m having a bilateral breast reduction and lumpectomy and I live alone. My sister will be here for a few days after surgery How do I empty the trash (into a dumpster), get out of bed etc without using my arms to push off and not raise them far if at all ?
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3 months agoPlease DoNOT Worry About Your Left Arm
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3 months agoAs I also Had 1 Ymph Node Removed. Thank G-D It Was NOT Cancerous
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3 months agoIt does take time however you will become stronger
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3 months agoPlease share your address with me
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2 months agoReaching out for practical help during recovery shows real wisdom, especially when managing everything alone in a small town. Consider connecting with local churches, community centers, or volunteer organizations who often have members willing to help with household tasks - many communities have informal networks of people who genuinely want to support neighbors facing health challenges. Social media community groups or neighborhood apps might also help you find trustworthy local people who could assist with specific tasks during your recovery period.
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