Mental Health and Mindfulness

Is crying and feeling hopeless after melanoma surgery normal?

Hi everyone. I don’t even know where to begin here. I read through these posts and feel silly even posting. I recently underwent surgery for melanoma on my scalp, something called a large excision, and also had a couple lymph nodes removed from my neck. Throughout the process of every scan under the sun, they also found a mass on my brain that we are continuing to monitor (most likely just a meningioma). I feel I handled it pretty well mentally, until I returned to work post surgery and was let go from a job I dearly loved. I pretty much saw that coming as my boss’ adoration and praises of my performance instantly vanished the moment I told her I’d be out for at least a week for recovery. I made the decision I needed a fresh start, and decided to move across Country to be near my family. Sounds like a good plan, right? Well, there’s a reason one should never make important decisions while on meds. I don’t have the kind of parents who are nurturing by anyone’s standards, but I’ve learned to let it bounce off over the decades. Since moving, I now find myself crying and wishing I had never bothered with treating the cancer, and just wish I had died. This is NOT me! The normal me would just regret telling my family about the cancer, which I do, but what the heck is happening to make me cry so much and not want to live? I never shed a tear throughout the whole process, my team of docs both commented on how great I was handling everything. Is this at all a normal part of the process? I’m sorry, I know my ordeal is so minuscule compared to everyone on here, but I’m becoming concerned. I just want to know if this is at all normal?

Anyone else dealing with Primary CNS Lymphoma? Looking for support

Is there anyone on this platform that has Primary CNS Lymphoma(brain cancer) with no other cancers in your body. My mom was diagnosed with that on June 4, 2025 it was hemmoraging and so it forced them to remove it but couldn't quit get it all. So they gave her 10 rounds of radiation. Gave her a 2 month break, she just completed 5 day regimate of chemo pill now we wait 3 weeks then another 5 days of chemo pill. Really dont kno what to expect. Would like to speak with someone who kno of this type of non hodgkin lymphoma

How does faith help when your heart feels broken and heavy?

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.” This reminds us that God’s presence doesn’t leave when life hurts — in fact, He draws even nearer. When your heart feels heavy, when disappointment, grief, or loneliness press in, God doesn’t stand at a distance. He steps into the pain with compassion, comfort, and strength. He sees every tear. He hears every unspoken prayer. He holds every piece of a wounded heart. And He doesn’t just stay close — He promises healing. Even when you can’t feel Him, He is working, restoring, and lifting you back up.

Can't sleep before PET scan - how to cope with anxiety and fear?

I've been up since 4am im feeling so scared and cold woke me up ..I need some sleep i.have the pet scan later today...im thinking the worst 😫

How do you handle finances after chemo when not officially in remission?

I just completed my first round of chemo. I was told I need 3 month ct scans for a few months. I wasn't told I was in remission yet. So my cancer fund that was paying my rent is now going to be done but I still cant make I above a certin small amount if i go back to work or I'l lose my medical but cant swing my bills on the limit I can make working. Anyone's facing this impossible situation??

How do you cope when cancer scans keep showing progression?

I'm stage 4, losing my shit and have no hope because whenever I get a new scan it gets worse

How do I cope when stopping all cancer treatment and feeling exhausted?

I don't know what to say I'm done with all treatment for my cancer no more treatment at all but I'm going to ask primary physician if I can get one last pet scan so I can see where cancer has progressed I just want real good but never do I sleep a lot

How do you rebuild yourself mentally and emotionally after cancer?

“Life is a toolbox” In that toolbox are the tools that you have used to build and create the person that you are. Not every tool fits every situation,or is needed to get the job done. The toolbox is filled with your Decisions,Approach, Efforts,Kindness,Trust, Respect, your Perseverance. These are the tools that you have used to build and shape yourself and the same tools you can use to repair or rebuild yourself as well! Sometimes all you need is a small adjustment,realignment, a different perspective. When you are told that you have cancer, those tools become much more powerful. Mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Every situation is different. But if you go to that toolbox you will find the right tools to repair renew and overcome! “Don’t Let The Bad Days Win!”

How to cope with job anxiety and depression after cancer treatment?

Hello everyone, I’m Chona and I have been diagnosed with stage 3 adenocarcinomacolon cancer last February 2024. I had four surgeries total. I finished my chemo treatment in December of 2024. NED for 9 months. I lost my job in May 2025. Now, anxiety, depression, insomnia and lost of appetite started. My mental health is affecting my daily life. I could not focus and I have been having brain fog. All I could think about is the thought of not finding a job. I am a new RN and only worked as a nurse for 6 months in an assisted living facility due to my diagnosis that I had to take FMLA. Been unemployed ever since (almost 2yrs) and now finding for a job is hard. And this all I think about and I am scared. I don’t have much experience in nursing and I may have lost my skills. I need a stress free work which i doubt it. I don’t know what to do.

Does Rick Simpson Oil (RSO) really help with cancer treatment?

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