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Why do I keep attracting men who lie and disappear?

AW

Community Member

12 days ago

I wish I had been diagnosed with stage 4 because I would not want to be with someone. I want to be loved and love someone but all I seem to get are guys who lie to me or stop talking to me. What have I done to get men who lie to me and stop talking. I am so depressed and lonely. Maybe I am meant to be alone for the rest of my life.

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CA

Community Member

12 days ago

This sounds incredibly difficult and isolating to navigate, especially while dealing with a cancer diagnosis. Relationship patterns can be complex, and often they reflect more about the other person's character and capacity for genuine connection than anything about your worth or what you've done wrong. Consider reaching out by scrolling down the page from the Home Screen of the app to find the Ask Outcomes4Me box to get in touch for a more personal conversation with our clinical care experts, and remember that the 988 hotline is available if you need additional support during these tough moments.

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TO

Community Member

8 days ago

Dear Aymer, We are never alone despite our early struggles for Our Lord and Savior is always with us.. Reach out to Him and pray continuously for the right person to come into your life. We may not always understand the reasons why we face delays but I assure you putting your faith and prayers first will find you everlasting peace and happiness. Thomas O 🙏

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AW

Community Member

2 days ago

Thomas.. there are those of us who are not Christians... Such as myself for personal reasons... Just saying

EH

Community Member

2 days ago

Aymee that is not true. You are not "ment" to be alone in the journey we call life. Remember in the Bible it said, "and God saw that Adam was alone, and he said, "it is not good for man to be alone, I will make him a helper..." So hold onto that. If u want to talk, reach out to me. Eddie. H.

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AW

Community Member

2 days ago

I'm not a Christian 🤦🏻‍♀️ I don't believe in the Bible or God... For personal reasons.. ugh

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