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"Does stage 4 breast cancer make you feel lost and trapped in a bad dream?"

AJ

Community Member

4 months ago

Hello my name is Angel I have stage 4 breast cancer that has metastasize to the bone.i some times feel lost like I am in a bad dream and it won't end.dose anyone else feel that way.

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Those feelings of being lost and trapped in an unending difficult situation are shared by many others facing similar challenges. The overwhelming nature of a metastatic diagnosis can create that dreamlike disconnection from reality that makes everything feel surreal and uncertain. Many community members have expressed similar emotions when processing their diagnosis and the changes it brings to their lives. This community understands these complex feelings, and sharing them here can help connect with others who truly get what this experience is like.

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CW

Community Member

4 months ago

Hi Angel, yes I feel that way all of the time ever since the diagnosis. Mine spread to hip and liver and I’m always paranoid. I feel like I woke up in a bad dream as well.

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LK

Community Member

3 months ago

I will definitely pray for you both to have peace and comfort.

AC

Community Member

3 months ago

Lately, I've felt this way too, as everywhere you turn cancer is on the forefront. But hold on and keep your head up. Keep your mind occupied with things you like to do and stay surrounded by loved ones as much as you can!

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CH

Community Member

2 months ago

Hi I also have stage 4 metastatic breast cancer that has spread to the bones. Do you know about https://Metavivor.org? please visit the website. We meet every Wednesday at 1pm via zoom or in person. Charlene

CA

Community Member

2 months ago

Those feelings of being lost and trapped in an unending difficult situation are shared by many others facing similar challenges. The overwhelming nature of a metastatic diagnosis can create that dreamlike disconnection from reality that makes everything feel surreal and uncertain. Many community members have expressed similar emotions when processing their diagnosis and the changes it brings to their lives. This community understands these complex feelings, and sharing them here can help connect with others who truly get what this experience is like.

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