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19 days agoHello, I just had TURB on Oct. 8 this year. I have yet to know what stage but it is inside the wall of the bladder. I go for a bone scan on 17th and then a pet scan at some point. Has anyone been told how long if you do not do chemo and radiation. My husband spent 5 days a week in chemo, my mother did chemo too. Not a good outcome for either. Immunotherapy may be an option but not if I have to suffer through it for months. I'm 65 and have had a good life. Would rather spend my time outside a doctor's office. Oncologist wants to take my bladder. I just don't think I can have a bag the rest of my life.
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19 days agoWhile survival timelines vary greatly from person to person based on many individual factors that only medical professionals can assess, these feelings about treatment decisions are completely understandable given past experiences with loved ones. Many community members have faced similar difficult choices about balancing quality of life with treatment options, and there's no single right answer that works for everyone. Consider discussing all concerns openly with the medical team, as they may have insights about newer approaches or supportive care options that could help inform this personal decision.
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15 days agoOncologist or urologist wants take bladder? My urologist wanted bladder out Stage 3 Oncologist treatment with chemo and surgery last resort . Was a Ta3 tumor, after 3 chemo treatments it's now a ta2 and shrinking, plus it's falling apart
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15 days agoMentioned by the oncologist and from what I've read that is the usual route they take for BC. Also take lymph nodes and anything surrounding the bladder out. No chemo for me. I'm praying that God heals me but I won't do chemo. I've seen too many family members go through it suffered for what they prayed would work and it didnt.
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15 days agoThe great news is that C has not spread to the bones. I'm so thankful for that.
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