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10 months agoI had my mastectomy on April 17th. I am about to have my reconstruction surgery on the 14th. I am taking a hormone blocker, they didn't do radiation since they didn't want to ruin my skin. It doesn't seem real to me. I don't feel like I have cancer, but when I look into the mirror it's obvious something is wrong. Does anyone else feel this way?
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This feeling of detachment is actually quite common among cancer patients and shows how the mind sometimes protects itself from overwhelming situations. Many people in similar situations describe feeling disconnected from their diagnosis while still seeing the physical reminders. This response doesn't mean anything is wrong with how you're processing your experience - everyone's emotional journey through cancer treatment is unique and valid. Connecting with others who share similar experiences can help normalize these feelings and provide perspective on the many ways people cope with cancer.
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10 months agoYes the whole experience is hard to believe
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10 months agoYes that is how I felt. What type of reconstruction? I had problems with my expander. It may have been since I had it done the same day as my surgery. I start radiation and iron infusion therapy tomorrow. Please keep us updated to date. God bless 🙏.
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10 months ago🙏🏻
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10 months agoThey are taking tissue from my stomach to create a breast and minimizing my remaining breast for symmetry.
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10 months agoThank you all for your your comments.
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10 months agoBetsy, Are you doing chemo after mastectomy?
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10 months agoIt sounds like you ate having a DIEP. It is a longer recovery, and they use your own skin. All of it usually feels surreal. It's a ver tough thing to go through. All of it. Best of luck!
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10 months agoMy apologies for the typo. It sounds like you are having the DIEP surgery.
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10 months agoAlexa, I am not doing chemo
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9 months agoI got diagnosed with dcis and it’s extensive so I am having a mastectomy on left breast still waiting for a date and I feel fine I’m still in shock
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9 months agoI am in a wound up, get it done mood. I have my bag packed, my family has been contacted and I am ready to go.
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9 months ago2 radiation therapy of 25 and 1 iron infusion therapy of 8. Has to have a PICC surgery put in on Tuesday. Other tests this week.
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9 months agoYes
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6 months agoThis feeling of detachment is actually quite common among cancer patients and shows how the mind sometimes protects itself from overwhelming situations. Many people in similar situations describe feeling disconnected from their diagnosis while still seeing the physical reminders. This response doesn't mean anything is wrong with how you're processing your experience - everyone's emotional journey through cancer treatment is unique and valid. Connecting with others who share similar experiences can help normalize these feelings and provide perspective on the many ways people cope with cancer.
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