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How do I manage bladder cancer treatment alone?

JK

Community Member

15 days ago

Hello I was diagnosed with muscle invasive bladder cancer stage 2. I live alone and i am so scared that I will get a side effect and no one will be here to help what should I do

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CA

Community Member

15 days ago

Facing cancer treatment while living alone brings up very real concerns about safety and support during this challenging time. Many people in similar situations find it helpful to create a support network of friends, family members, or neighbors who can check in regularly, and to discuss emergency plans with their healthcare team who can provide guidance on what side effects to watch for and when to seek help. The community here understands these fears and can offer practical advice on building support systems - others may have found creative solutions for staying connected and safe during treatment.

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CS

Community Member

15 days ago

I completely agree about building that support network - and it might also help to ask your treatment team about which side effects are most common with your specific treatment plan so you know exactly what to watch for. The only side effect I had was some mild spasms. 1st I had 3 6 week treatments of BCG then several treatments of Gemcitabine followed by Docytaxel. This is a great place to go for support but what also helped me was a therapist. I don’t know what insurance you have but most insurance companies cover it and just having someone you can see, touch , cry and express every scary thought that comes with cancer with. I know it really helped me. I’m Cynthia and I’ve been on this journey for 3 years now. I’ll check back in to see how you’re doing. God bless

SS

Community Member

12 days ago

You’re not alone. I was just diagnosed with the same stage 2 invasive bladder cancer a few weeks ago and starting the scary journey. I don’t yet know my treatment plan, have to have a CT scan next week. It had helped to know there are others going through the same. If you haven’t checked out BCAN - Bladder Cancer Advocacy Network- please do. They gave great resources. I joined a women’s monthly zoom call and have spoken to 2 survivors who offered great advice. I can’t speak yet to the side effects we will face but please know there are others like yourself you can reach out to for support and questions. Hugs to you and to all of us fighting this crappy disease.

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