Sister Refuses Cancer Scan After Diagnosis

I would imagine she is really scared. The first part of the diagnosis was horrible for me. If she can get past this initial stage she will get better at managing it but it takes time ( and loving support from others helps!). Obviously not going will make it worse she could have a very treatable case and get well and even if she does end up having a tougher diagnosis, going in now ( not later) will make it better. Love experienced and heard others say this first part of getting the diagnosis is the worst. The more information you get the more you can get in control of this

Good morning following up on my sister’s diagnosis. She was diagnosed as staged 4 and it had spreaded all over. The cancer was aggressive and she had jaundice really bad. Oncologist said no treatment needed and she was place on hospice two weeks from today and was given two weeks to live. She passed away May 1, 2024. It was a total of 12 of us and 6 gone and 6 living. I lost three siblings within less than a year. Each 5 months apart. My first brother was killed by hit and run July 2023, second December 27 of sickness and now my sister May 1, 2024. People asking me how am I making nothing but Jesus Christ strength. He promised never to leave or forsake me. I been in counseling since my mom’s death in 2015. His Grace is indeed sufficient. Stay prayed up and he will see you all through this storm of life. Love and peace.

Oh my gosh Mary I just don't know even what to say to you. I can't even begin to imagine your loss of your sister and your brothers and your mother. I wish I could reach out through this phone app and hug on you. I hope and pray that you have all love and support you need. Thank God for your faith. God is with you. ❤️ I don't know if this is the right thing to say but you sharing here does give me strength (but I am not going through anything close to what you are having to deal with). Thank you so much for sharing your story. I wish there was a way for us to talk one-on-one. I am thinking of you and will pray for you. ❤️

God bless you Mary!! I'm so sorry to hear about your family. Only God can give you the strength you need and it sounds like you are leaning on Him. Stay strong and keep your faith in Christ. I wished I could hug you....know that you will be lifted up in prayers!

So sorry for your loss.

I will pray for you and her

This situation sounds incredibly challenging for both you and your sister. Fear and overwhelm after a cancer diagnosis can sometimes lead to avoiding the next steps, even when they're important for treatment planning. Many people in this community have faced similar moments of uncertainty with loved ones. Consider having a gentle conversation with your sister about what specifically concerns her about the scan, and perhaps offer to accompany her for support if that would help.