Just Diagnosed With Breast Cancer

How do you cope with feeling isolated during early breast cancer treatment?

Hi, diagnosed on 1/30 with IDC, stage 1. MRI is 2/25, had the genetic bloodwork drawn, waiting… I am Er+, Pr-, HER2 negative. Scheduled for double Mastectomy and possible reconstruction. Not sure, money… I work 2 jobs and it sucks my treatment approach may be determined by money. Not sure what the plan will be medically after the surgery. I feel like some family members are not bothering to check in while others are kind and thoughtful about seeing where I am at mentally. I know this is my journey just didn’t expect to feel this isolated already. Thanks for the ear.

What should I expect with triple negative breast cancer treatment at 60?

Hi, I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer in December & will be starting treatments in 2 days. I just turned 60. Is there anyone who has had this & what should I know? I'm pretty down & scared. Thanks in advance.

What's it like when your oncologist chooses chemo and targeted therapy?

My oncologist has been discussing different chemotherapy and targeted therapy options with me. From what I understand, some treatment plans combine chemotherapy drugs that work throughout the body, while others include targeted therapies that block specific proteins that help cancer grow. My doctor will choose the best approach based on my specific cancer characteristics and how I respond to treatment. I'm trying to learn more about what to expect from others who have been through similar treatment decisions. If you've been through chemotherapy or targeted therapy combinations: • What was your experience like when your oncologist was selecting your treatment plan? • What helped you prepare for or manage your treatment journey? I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who has navigated these treatment options.

Feeling overwhelmed after breast cancer diagnosis - how to cope?

I was recently diagnosed with breast cancer. I had a partial mastectomy on 2/13. I have IDC, -HER2. I try not to think about the cancer, but I am really scared and just don’t know what to do. I feel like I am being pushed from one person with needles to another. Things aren’t really explained and I feel out of control. I ask a million questions and I only get partial answers. Plus the overwhelming amount of bills that I have to pay out of pocket. That’s a great word to describe how I feel, overwhelmed. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

What is perineural invasion after breast cancer surgery?

Hi first I’m here, just had a double mastectomy for IDC on January 29, one invasive ductal carcinoma and two insitu as well as LCIS in both breasts, there were positive margins on one so additional surgery is necessary. I also had a pathology report of perineural invasion and was wondering how much people may know about that.

What are my breast reconstruction options after invasive ductal carcinoma?

Hello I am 55 just diagnosed with Invasive ductal carcinoma stage 2B grade 3. No treatment yet. I am meeting with the plastic surgeon next week to discuss my reconstructive surgery options. I have yet to decide if I want the lumpectomy and radiation or a mastectomy unilateral or bilateral. I go back and forth I definitely know I do not want implants so I am looking at the diep flap. Please share any thoughts or stories you have. I am feeling so overwhelmed scared and sad.

What should I expect from my upcoming single mastectomy surgery?

Got my surgery scheduled 27th I'm getting a mastectomy on the right. Was going to do double but with my health the risk of infection and possibility insurance wouldn't cover healthy breast we decided to just do single.

Will my breast cancer journey be lonely? How to prepare for first oncology appointment?

Hello Everyone, I was diagnosed on Jan 13th with IDC Er/Pr + Her2 - tumor is 1.7cm I will be seeing a doctor on Feb. 9th. I have been trying my hardest to educate myself so when I see my doctor I will not be looking at her like deers in headlights! I’m struggling with my family and friends. Why do they ask you questions and mid conversation it looks like they checked out and I feel like I’m talking to myself. I have gotten to the point where I just answer “I’m fine, just waiting for my doctors appointment “ Is this going to be a lonely journey?? I don’t know how to prepare for my first appointment. I’ve had some sleepless nights just thinking about what’s my journey going to look like. Can anyone share what I should be preparing myself for? Thank you!

How do you cope with feeling like a zombie after breast cancer diagnosis?

Hi first time here I have 3 tumors 2 of them are dcis confined to duct and 1 dcis that has extended into tissue. All 3 are hr positive with her2 low at a 1. I see a surgeon on Thursday and an oncologist next Thursday. I had annual mammogram in December I got report online in portal and showed it to my hematologist since I had an appointment already never heard from my primary until they got request from my hematologist for testing. Took 2 weeks to get referral for biopsy. It was requested as stat. With me calling to get scheduled. Anyway I'm not in mood to do anything I just lay around on phone or watch tv. I have a strong family history of breast cancer so I've decided that if they will do it I want a double mastectomy. How do you all deal with getting spirits lifted so I don't feel like a zombie all the time. I do try to keep my mind active listening to audio books I just started knitting so I do that sometimes. I play some video games but nothing stressful relaxing games. I'm just beginning this journey any advice is welcome

How long does soreness last after breast cancer surgery and radiation?

Hi, everyone. I’ve had this app for awhile just haven’t written anything. I was operated on November 28 , 2024. I just had a small lump. They also removed lymph nodes but it had not spread. I did radiation for about a month. Then I started the 5 year pill. I’m supposed to get another mammogram this week but been sick so I might change it. I’ve had one mammogram since surgery, only side that was operated on. This time will be both sides. It’s been over a year, still sore hope goes away soon. Any one wants to talk I also have facebook under Marzullo in chambersburg pa. Take care everyone.. I hope everyone is doing well.