Will my breast cancer journey be lonely? How to prepare for first oncology appoi...

Many people find that cancer diagnosis affects relationships differently - some friends may struggle to know what to say or feel overwhelmed, while others become incredible sources of support. Preparing a list of questions about treatment options, timeline, and what to expect can help make that first oncology appointment feel more manageable and ensure important topics get covered. Since loneliness during treatment is a common concern, consider reaching out by scrolling down the page from the Home Screen of the app to find the Ask Outcomes4Me box to get in touch for a more personal conversation and connect with clinical care experts. If feelings become overwhelming, the 988 crisis hotline is also available 24/7 for support.

I see my surgeon today and cancer Dr next week. I was just diagnosed too. I have a strong family history so I got some information from my sister who went through it.one day at a time is what I keep telling myself we can do this and get through this

Any questions that pop into your head between now and then, write down on paper. I had lined notebook paper and left a space or 2 after each question to write the doctor's answer during the appointment (I did thus for EVERY doctor). If they are a good doctor, they will take their time to make sure that you have an answer to all of your questions. Take someone with you as well. Preferably whoever is going to be helping you at home. Sometimes my husband had questions that I didn't think of. It is a crazy and overwhelming time when you are meeting with everyone to develop 'the plan'. Allow yourself time to absorb it all. I love the Oprah quote, "feel the feels, then take the wheel." You got this!

Thank you my daughter came with me we live together so she will take care of me. Surgery is on the 27th. They gave me 2 folders of reading material and a contact who will answer any questions or problems I have. She even consults with oncologist so she has all the info

I was diagnosed on 1/21/26 IDC stage 2B. I am feeling scared, sad,lonely,confused. I think the people around me just feel like i’ll just have surgery and be fine. I started two notebooks. One for questions for the Dr’s and one a journal for me to write down my thoughts.

Journaling is a great way to get stress and worries off our minds write it and leave it for a while. That's the problem I have I just keep thinking about it after written. I've started crocheting and it helps a lot to get my mind off things. I'm doing pretty good at it too I'm making a blanket