How do I cope with recovery after lung cancer surgery with no support?

Recovery after major surgery can feel overwhelming, especially when facing additional health challenges and feeling isolated. Consider reaching out to local cancer support groups, patient navigator programs at your treatment center, or organizations like the American Cancer Society that offer practical assistance and emotional support during recovery. Many people in this community understand the unique challenges of managing multiple health issues while feeling alone, and connecting with others who've walked similar paths can provide both comfort and practical advice.

I am so sorry that you are having issues, May I ask where you thought you were going to get help from? I ask this question because even though I am also a lung cancer survivor, it is hard for people to know what we need, even another survivor. If it is your friend, ask them.I have friends who are also survivors, and I am not always sure what to ask them other than how they are doing. When I went to my oncologists office, I always had to complete a form that had questions about my mental health and after about 3x filling it out and no one even asking me about it I asked one of the nurses and they said oh it is just for your file. It just about knocked me on the floor, so from that day forward, I refused to fill it out. I have asked the cancer society for help and never got any, so I don't even bother asking for anything from them, and I used to work their relay for life ( I don't refer anyone to them), They do have volunteers that you might get some help from. You might be able to get some transportation from your town at a reduced rate. I am sorry for what you are going through, especially with what you have already gone through. Keep in touch and let us know how you are doing. You are not alone. You have people who you can talk to.

I have asked medical staff at different facilities about the form and what if I stated abuse then what? I was told in every instance that they would have to notify authorities. I imagine that with mental health they would put me in touch with an organization that can help. So some medical organizations do look at those and take them seriously as well as put it in the file.

Abuse is one thing. If you need mental support please contact your local lung cancer support group. Check in your oncologist office to see if they have a cancer support group if not Google it.