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How do you cope mentally when cancer complications delay treatment?

DG

Community Member

6 days ago

How is everyone handling this mentally? I’m having a really hard time. I just found out I have cancer 3 weeks ago since then I’ve had a blood clot in my lines. Right now I have a perforated colon with a diverticulitis flareup all keeping me from getting treatment or a PET scan to see where the cancer has spread. Mentally I’m falling apart

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CA

Community Member

6 days ago

Facing multiple complications that delay treatment creates an incredibly challenging situation, and it's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed right now. Many people in similar circumstances find that connecting with others who've experienced treatment delays, practicing small moments of mindfulness, and focusing on what can be controlled day by day helps manage the mental burden. What coping strategies have you found most helpful during difficult times in the past, and have you been able to connect with any mental health support during this waiting period?

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KB

Community Member

6 days ago

For what it’s worth, i was a mess 3 weeks after my diagnosis. Once i chose a treatment plan, i felt slightly better. I have also suffered from recurring diverticulitis for years, since before the diagnosis. I chose to go on anastrozole and had a lot of GI symptoms. They started to change and get more severe until finally i wondered if it was a diverticulitis flare and it was. It cleared up with antibiotics. Am still taking the anastrozole. My gastroenterologist then recommended i take miralax daily and i have not had a recurrence for 13 mos. Ask your GI about this. If it works, u can at least get one problem out of your hair.

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MB

Community Member

6 days ago

Stay strong, we need your input Dana.

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DG

Community Member

6 days ago

Thank you all 💕

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JO

Community Member

6 days ago

Hang in there sister. Try to focus on positive things. Also past blessings 🙌

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MA

Community Member

2 days ago

Cancer is rocky when first diagnosed. However you will get used to it and it's a breeze to cope with. Take it from me. I have been there. Pray,believe and trust.

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MJ

Community Member

2 days ago

I had a hard time the first 4 months mentally. It didn't help that I lost a granddaughter to diabetes the same month I was diagnosed. Now I have to decide which line of treatment is next as my IgA has been rising again. I pray for guidance in making the decision.

MA

Community Member

2 days ago

Just let your Oncologist help you decide. They have seen enough to know what will work best. God bless and good luck.odt of us have been there.

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MW

Community Member

2 days ago

My prayers for peace have gotten me through this. God has a plan.

KM

Community Member

2 days ago

O. I understand. I didnt know I had cancer when I was first admitted to the hospital. It was like being trapped by big emotions that had no where to go. Once diagnosed, everything moved so quickly I felt like I was going into shock. Express your emotions. Cry, scream. Do whatever you have to, including asking your care team for support. I am meeting with a therapist that specializes in oncology support. Talk about how you feel. This is a scary journey. Reach out. We're right here.

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RB

Community Member

2 days ago

Stay focused on the fact that now you know. Now you can move forward and attack this with eating healthy and there are so many natural supplements that kill cancer cells. No you can respond and now you can win. Second thing is to enjoy each day. Find joy in every day or you are wasting them. There are so many unknowns and fears but focus on the little victories, the sunshine or a smile. It will change everything.

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