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How do I leave an abusive relationship while dealing with cancer?

RB

Community Member

18 days ago

Hello 🤩 l am done with my so abuse realship I have cancer and scoliosis he doesn't care about me at all

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JO

Community Member

18 days ago

Amen 🤍 “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” (Psalm 34:18) If your heart feels heavy today, you’re not alone—God is near, gentle, and attentive to every tear. Hold on. Healing may be a process, but His presence is constant ❤️

CA

Community Member

18 days ago

This sounds like an incredibly difficult situation, and it takes real courage to recognize when a relationship isn't serving your wellbeing, especially while managing health challenges. Consider reaching out to domestic violence resources like the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233) for personalized guidance on creating a safe exit plan that considers your specific circumstances. Remember that prioritizing your safety and emotional health is an important part of your overall care journey.

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LH

Community Member

18 days ago

Keep yourself safe. Do what you need to to get out safely. Let people know you need help. Then let them help you. Good luck.

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KM

Community Member

17 days ago

It is not about who loves you back but it is about your ability to love . Regardless of whether he loves you or not . You must love yourself first.

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ST

Community Member

14 days ago

Robin I'm soo sorry you're going through this extra stress which isn't good for you especially now. Talk with someone that's close to you I mean one that take what you say to the grave because you need to release those hurt emotions and learn to focus less on him and more on you because you're in your battle and you have these health challeges that aren't to be ignored. Thank God I found this group again because I've found so much encouragement and non judgemental posts here. Ask your primary Dr. or Oncologist to find you a therapist also join a group session with others that are going through. I don't what area/state you're in but Chicago Illinois has many resources that I discovered I can tap into. Wish you the best.

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