How do you cope when colon cancer becomes incurable?

Finding ways to cope with an incurable diagnosis often involves taking things one day at a time and focusing on what brings meaning and comfort during this difficult journey. Many people in similar situations find strength through connecting with others who understand, exploring palliative care options that prioritize quality of life, and having open conversations with loved ones about fears and wishes for the time ahead.

Prayers for you and your family.

I am praying too

Prayers ❤️

Prayers for you and your family

I'm so sorry 😞 I hope you can find peace and comfort in Jesus and your transition to his presence 🙏 💓 I'm sure you have shown and will write down for your husband how to care for your Son until you all are reunited ❤️

Ask for Gods help today

Good morning Grace, Some food for thought on this beautiful morning folks.. Scripture tells us to seek the kingdom of heaven and believe with our whole heart and soul in Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.. Every one of us who has woken this day has been blessed with another chance to become closer to Christ.. Let us give thanks for this day. As for some food; Think fellow people He gave sight to the blind, He enabled the lame to walk,He brought Lazarus back from the grave.. So tell me please what chance does a parasite like cancer have against His Almighty Power.. The only thing standing in the way is OUR FAITH.. He said we have the power to move mountains if only we BELIEVE.. What chance does a parasite like cancer have against OUR FAITH.. Heavenly Father I beseech thee to touch the lives of all fighting this parasite called cancer in Jesus Name Amen.. God Bless Thomas

Praying for you 🙏

While I appreciate everyone’s attempts to provide comfort and compassion, I’m not a terribly religious person. In addition, I cannot see “God’s Plan” to painfully (most likely literally) rip me from a family who desperately needs me. Telling me I’ll be reunited with my loved ones or that I need to have faith in God or Jesus or whoever isn’t particularly helpful. I’m sorry but that’s how I feel right now. There is nothing about this that is right and NOTHING to be thankful for. I don’t believe I will be “saved” if I only believe in Him. I know you all are trying to be helpful but I find no comfort in your words. Thanks for trying though.

That’s ok. We’ll continue to pray for you, Grace

Grace, Unfortunately none of us can see or know God’s plans for us or our loved ones. He is the only one who knows , but wouldn’t it be comforting to you to know that He is taking care of them when you’re gone.. You have nothing to lose and on the other hand they have everything to gain.. There’s nothing we can do to change our situation but we can pray for the future of our loved ones.. If there’s the slightest chance wouldn’t you want to take it for them Grace.? You don’t have to go to church and pray you all can do it from the comfort of your home..! You don’t have to be religious just give it to Our Lord and let him take care of you and your family.. No matter what you decide we’ll all be praying for you and your family Grace. Through His grace and mercy I’ve been able to spend months with my family and loved ones.. There’s NO TELLING what He’ll be able to do for you. ASK Him and find out.. God Bless Thomas O

Hang in there 🙏

I agree with Grace. I choose to believe that all replies were given with good intentions. Please just offer up Prayer. I would have been devastated had I gotten the replies that Grace is referring too. The cancer diagnosis that I received was difficult for me and my love ones. Sometimes it’s best to sincerely Pray before we reply. This woman’s heart is shattered. There are no human words that can make a difference right now. So, just Pray, Believe and Stand. That’s our responsibility as Believers In The LORD. I believe with my entire heart everyone meant well. But Please, Pray First. May GOD Bless You All Richly.

So very sorry to read about your situation, I’m on limited time with incurable Liver cancer I will include you in my prayers. Keep strong.

Grace, you are in my heart, prayers or not

You'll be fine in Jesus name.. God will see you through all this .. I'd like to know more about your journey

I totally agree with you Grace.

Dear Grace If any of my responses to your post offended you I’m truly sorry.. Like so many others here I want nothing but peace for you and your family.. I know firsthand what miracles Our Lord can do and will continue to Pray for you and your family.. God Bless Thomas O

I will keep you and your family in prayer🙏🏾

Grace have you talked to palliative care?? It should be a part of your cancer treatment. This way you can decide what you are willing to do or not do! They will fight for your quality of life for the time you have left instead of just pounding you with more medication. They can also help with mental health and other things. Please make an appointment with them and let them help you

Melissa ~ thank you very much. I have since been referred to Palliative care and met with them once. I'm still unclear what exactly they do but I'm sure I'll figure it out. I understand they are there to help with quality of life vs quantity but still figuring out what that looks like. Since I wrote this post I've met with my oncologist and another 2nd opinion oncologist and have a clearer picture of MY situation and that it may be better than statistics depending on how I respond to treatment. I truly appreciate your practical advice. Kind words are nice but not really helpful to ME at this point. Cheers.

Palliative care is a specialized branch of medicine focused entirely on improving your quality of life and reducing the stress and pain of a serious illness. They do not treat the cancer itself—they treat the human being who is suffering from the treatments and the system.