How to get terminal diagnosis letter for end-of-life options?

This is an incredibly difficult situation, and it's understandable to want clear information about all available options during this challenging time. For questions about terminal diagnosis documentation and end-of-life care options like those available in Oregon, speaking with a palliative care specialist, patient advocate, or contacting organizations like Compassion & Choices directly might provide the specific guidance needed about eligibility requirements and the process involved.

Hi Jeff, I’m really sorry you are carrying so much right now and it makes sense after all you’ve been through that the emotional weight can start to feel as heavy as the physical side of cancer. It might be worth asking your cancer center if they have a psychologist who specializes in supporting cancer patients, along with an oncology social worker who can help connect you with resources and support. We are really glad you’re here with us.💛 Suzanne (Community Moderator)

Hi, Jeff — Have you tried finding a pro-suicide private organization? I have been fortunate thus far in my ultimately losing battle with high-risk localized PCa to have found a neighbor who’s been serving as my therapist; he is also affiliated with a pro-suicide Colorado organization, which helps the terminally ill in CO battle the medical establishment, which is obligated to keep people alive, no matter how miserable and suffering they may be. Unfortunately, you can only be billed for useless, purposeless visits and consults and procedures if you’re legally alive, which means you’ll get no help from the establishment. For me, that required accessing concierge medicine—hugely expensive, but for the first time in years I get to have an opinion and make choices concerning my own body—after only 7 weeks resulting in the only treatment that has made me feel better, instead of worse, in the 3 years since my diagnosis and 2 years since my treatment (radiation and ADT) that yielded only totally wasted time and completely failed “recovery.” As I should have realized much sooner: “You get what you pay for.” My bottom line suggestion: Get outside the system. Find a private group that’s allowed to be on your side.