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2 months agoHi my name is Tina. I was just diagnosed im not sure yet with what type just the spot in my lung was bad im still in shock so I dont remember all that was said. My oncologist is supposed to call me back Monday so this is where im left scared an not sure what to do trying to not let my family know how frightened I really am. Any advice would be appreciated ty 😊
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The shock and fear after a cancer diagnosis are completely normal reactions, and it's natural to feel overwhelmed while waiting for more detailed information from your oncologist. Many people in this community have found that focusing on one step at a time - like gathering information during your upcoming call - can help manage the anxiety of uncertainty. Consider writing down questions beforehand so you feel more prepared, and remember that you don't have to carry these feelings alone - this community understands what you're going through.
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2 months agoHi Tina, Keep your mind occupied. Research, ask questions, seek a second, third, forth opinion. Do not worry about other people’s opinions. Let your family know how worried you are. Never stop looking for your cure. Don’t let your doctors off the hook. Ask what is working and what is not. Ask about ALL the mutations and the different treatments. No lie!!! It is very scary! But you will find a path.
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2 months agoThank you. 😊
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2 months agoIf you can, have a note taker with you at appts or the phone calls. You won't remember the info, the details. That's normal.. I have my husband. My friend had her daughter. But it can be a good friend who just takes notes. I also started a notebook. I take notes at appts and make notes of questions I want to ask. And it is OK to ask the same question again if you don't remember or aren't sure. You deserve to understand. I worked in Healthcare so I understand a lot, but I still have questions and anxieties. When overwhelmed, take a deep breath and start again.
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2 months agoThank you my oncologist wants a pet scan an lung function test its small.but stage 3 because one limpnode has a little.
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2 months agoI have a follow up PET-CT due early Dec. Hope it is good news.
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2 months agoThank you hope all goes well for you.
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2 months agoThe shock and fear after a cancer diagnosis are completely normal reactions, and it's natural to feel overwhelmed while waiting for more detailed information from your oncologist. Many people in this community have found that focusing on one step at a time - like gathering information during your upcoming call - can help manage the anxiety of uncertainty. Consider writing down questions beforehand so you feel more prepared, and remember that you don't have to carry these feelings alone - this community understands what you're going through.
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