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How do you find strength to keep helping others while fighting cancer?

RS

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3 days ago

covid years particularly very difficult to schedule scans can have follow up appointments before the vaccines came along I decided to wear full PPE and do home visits on homebound elderly patients with Covid I also did WhatsApp consultations for patience in India from my state I lost many relatives and my wife’s sister who was a journalist. Luckily my wife’s dementia had an advanced and she did not know her sister passed away. I spoke to her even when she was in ICU in India and she waved me goodbye before she expired. I lost approximately 250 of my geriatric patients whom I have cared for for more than 10 to 20 years. This gave me more resolved to fight as I used to call homebound patients by rotation every day to make sure they were doing well or just give them a emotional support. In 2022 I had three brain metastasis treated with CyberKnife radiation In 2024 had three other side sides in the brain CyberKnife radiation. I had no evidence of any other disease apart from the brain metastasis. So I have stayed on gilotrif ATKI inhibitor immunotherapy one pill day period this is my eight year and five months on first line therapy. I still try and exercise 3 to 4 times a week and I work 16 hours a day and when not working I’m running errands to grocery stores collecting medications for my mother and hunting for whole grain food. I allotted want one hour a week to play the victim card and feel sorry for myself and I spend this time looking at old photographs of my family and my dear wife who was a physician and spent most of her time in a homeless shelters preparing food or filling older patients to chemotherapy and doctors appointments in addition to working in my practice about 10 hours a week. She guides me every day to look beyond myself to be a beacon of hope for so many others who may feel helpless. Unique disease which hates you in the prime of your life because 50s are the time when your immune system is not as strong as it used to be and the regular environmental toxins with your body was able to take care of is now overpowering your immune system to fight it only medications cannot do it your willpower your positive state of mind and pushing yourself even when every muscle in your body aches is the key luckily I have a purpose which is to take care of my mother until she passes away as she has all the mental faculties find was a source of inspiration navigating the last days of my wife illness. all of us has seen ourselves the resolve to live, willingness to fight, give a lending hand to someone in despair. I wish you all the strength and the faith to fight this horrible disease. With love Ramesh

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9-year stage 4 lung cancer survivor seeking to help others?

RS

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a day ago

Hi winners, I am a physician and a patient diagnosed with stage four non-small cell lung cancer with PDL one positive and EGF for positive with no specific mutations I went through five courses of chemotherapy which consisted of carboplatin,premextred and pembroluzimab… followed by afatinib I had brain metastasis on and off has had three CyberKnife treatments to minor increase in nodules with no evidence of new disease. initial diagnosis was made with a malignant plural effusion with a drainage of 4 L of fluid I lost two days of work and now I work 14 hours a week my specialty is geriatrics and Wound Care. In addition to being a patient I was a caregiver for my wife for 10 years after the diagnosis who died of frontal temporal dementia she was also a physician Now I am a caregiver for me 101 year-old mother at home with the help of some dedicated caregivers some of them were colleagues at my work. I’m still on first line therapy. I used to be an active blogger in inspire.com with a lung cancer Association but lost touch three years ago. My group no longer exist as most of the people have passed on Not many studies are around for nine years survivors with stage four disease and first line therapy. The road has not been smooth at times rocky with periods of elation, despair mixed with anger,acceptance, and unshakable faith andpositivity. Hopefully I can help some and learn from some period Bless you all Ramesh

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