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a month agoMy father has cancer for about a year now, we recently moved him into a facility that could better care for him. I don't want him to go.. but I'm ready for him to go.. and me and mom told him it's okay to go.. but he's still lingering, and I don't know why.
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a month agoIt's completely normal for loved ones to linger even after receiving permission to let go - everyone's journey is different and there's no set timeline for this process. Many people in similar situations have shared that their family members seemed to need more time, perhaps to feel at peace or to say their own goodbyes in their own way. This liminal space can feel emotionally challenging, but know that you're providing him with love and support during whatever time he needs.
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a month agoJust spend as much time with him as you can.
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a month agoIt’s very hard to watch and go through this.
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a month agoHe finally passed yesterday and it's been difficult to even process
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a month agoI am so sorry Seth. Be kind and generous with yourself and your mother.
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a month agoMy heart is with and your pain
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a month agoSeth, So sorry for the loss of your father.
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