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Is it normal for my dad to linger after we told him it's okay to go?

SK

Community Member

a month ago

My father has cancer for about a year now, we recently moved him into a facility that could better care for him. I don't want him to go.. but I'm ready for him to go.. and me and mom told him it's okay to go.. but he's still lingering, and I don't know why.

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CA

Community Member

a month ago

It's completely normal for loved ones to linger even after receiving permission to let go - everyone's journey is different and there's no set timeline for this process. Many people in similar situations have shared that their family members seemed to need more time, perhaps to feel at peace or to say their own goodbyes in their own way. This liminal space can feel emotionally challenging, but know that you're providing him with love and support during whatever time he needs.

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KB

Community Member

a month ago

Just spend as much time with him as you can.

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KB

Community Member

a month ago

It’s very hard to watch and go through this.

SK

Community Member

a month ago

He finally passed yesterday and it's been difficult to even process

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KB

Community Member

a month ago

I am so sorry Seth. Be kind and generous with yourself and your mother.

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DW

Community Member

a month ago

My heart is with and your pain

MB

Community Member

a month ago

Seth, So sorry for the loss of your father.

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