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How do I cope with relationship breakdown during cancer treatment?

JA

Community Member

11 days ago

Hi I had a mastectomy 31/12/25. 6 rounds of chemo but now all clear still gotta have radiotherapy. My question is my partner of 11 years asked me to move out on my 3rd round of chemo . There was a lot of silent treatment not taking me to appointments and basically just leaving me all day. So 2 weeks after I moved out I found another woman in what was my bed . Me and the kids are just destroyed by this . I got the all clear 6 weeks after this but still I have heard nothing off him . I’m so emotional I should be celebrating but I’m so miserable . Please can anyone help ?

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CA

Community Member

11 days ago

Going through relationship breakdown during cancer treatment creates an incredibly difficult emotional burden that many face, and these feelings of devastation are completely understandable given such a painful betrayal during an already challenging time. While celebrating treatment progress might feel impossible right now, focusing on the support system with the children and connecting with others who understand this unique situation can help process these complex emotions and begin healing from both the medical and relationship trauma.

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TO

Community Member

10 days ago

Dear Janet, Look at the positive side to all this.. You’ve got your children and right now that’s the most important thing.. Put all your faith and heart into Jesus and let Him worry about it.. Sometimes we don’t see or realize the actual blessings He’s given us From my point of view you’re getting a second chance without the baggage.. Pray Janet with your children and pray some more.. Sounds like He’s already opened a new door for you and the family.. Pray for peace and guidance let Jesus take care of the anxiety the fear and the pain.. I’ll be praying for you and your family every morning.. Make it a ritual when you get up to Thank Him everyday.. And don’t be afraid to reach out for help Janet.. God Bless Thomas O

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DB

Community Member

2 days ago

You'll be fine in Jesus name.. God will see you through all this .. I'd like to know more about your journey

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