How can I help my wife feel safe about intimacy during chemo treatment?
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3 days agoOK, everyone here goes. I have early stage lymphoma. I have had three chemo treatments with very little side effects while I can’t work out like I used to. I still can walk do stretching and mild exercise exercises. This is my problem for some reason. My wife are 14 years does not feel comfortable being intimate she believes somehow the chemo will affect her or it will make me sick. It’s been almost 2 months I still have a sex drive at 62. Any advice on how to make her feel secure with intimacy
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2 days agoThis is a common concern that many couples face during cancer treatment, and it's understandable that both of you want to feel safe and comfortable. Having an open conversation with your oncology team about intimacy guidelines during treatment can provide the medical reassurance your wife may need, as they can address her specific concerns about safety and any precautions to consider. Many couples find that discussing these worries together and getting professional guidance helps rebuild confidence in maintaining physical connection during this challenging time.
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2 days agoTake her to an oncology appointment and discuss with md
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2 days agoThanh you will do
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2 days agoThank
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