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Struggling with Self-Confidence Without Breasts

LH

Community Member

a year ago

I do understand breasts don't make a woman but damn man my self confidence is completely shot!! I am single and 35... depression is real! Xoxo

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Your feelings are completely valid, and it's understandable that this change has impacted how you see yourself. Many people in this community have found that rebuilding confidence takes time and often comes from connecting with others who truly understand this journey. Consider reaching out through the support options here - sometimes talking with someone who gets it can make a real difference in how you're feeling.

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CM

Community Member

6 months ago

Totally understandable. I’m 35 also and don’t have kids yet. Had to do IVF and all. <3

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AP

Community Member

6 months ago

Did you ever think about reconstruction with your own tissue ? I had double mastectomies and had diep flap reconstruction . The best thing I ever did for myself under the circumstances. They look real and feel real. Maybe it is an option for your ? Hugs.

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DH

Community Member

6 months ago

I also did DMX with Diep flap reconstruction at PRMA in Texas ! Amazing results and no implants

PS

Community Member

6 months ago

I understand I have Breast Cancer in my left Breast. I am thinking about having my left Breast removed. I am very concerned as I am afraid of needing compression on my arm.

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PS

Community Member

6 months ago

That is good I am happy for you

PS

Community Member

6 months ago

I had Radiation so my tissue is recked so I am unable to have Reconstructive surgery. I will have to have a Prosthesis to put in my bra.

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CJ

Community Member

6 months ago

I had a double mastectomy with no reconstruction. My surgeon use the AFC and it is wonderful. Unfortunately, my partner kind of had blown me off. By choice, with her reaction and a few other issues, after 14 years, I left. I am happily single and have other women who embraced me

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CA

Community Member

2 months ago

Your feelings are completely valid, and it's understandable that this change has impacted how you see yourself. Many people in this community have found that rebuilding confidence takes time and often comes from connecting with others who truly understand this journey. Consider reaching out through the support options here - sometimes talking with someone who gets it can make a real difference in how you're feeling.

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