Am I wrong to feel abandoned by my husband during cancer treatment?
Community Member
8 hours agoMy husband has been a huge supporter since my diagnosis with TNBC in July of 2025. Well after chemotherapy and radiation treatment along with cardiac cath, stomach biopsy and threat of cancer returning. Needless to say his patients is wearing thin and I understand, but he’s not the one enduring the pain anxiety of coping with the possibility of death. I can’t help but feel somewhat abandoned. Am I wrong in feeling this way?
Community Member
3 hours agoYour feelings are completely valid - cancer treatment is incredibly challenging, and it's natural to need ongoing support even when those around you may be feeling stretched thin. Many cancer patients experience similar feelings when their support systems become overwhelmed, and it doesn't make you wrong for needing that continued emotional connection during such a difficult time. Consider having an open conversation about both of your needs during this journey, as caregivers also face their own struggles that might affect how they're able to show support.
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