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Am I wrong to feel abandoned by my husband during cancer treatment?

CN

Community Member

24 days ago

My husband has been a huge supporter since my diagnosis with TNBC in July of 2025. Well after chemotherapy and radiation treatment along with cardiac cath, stomach biopsy and threat of cancer returning. Needless to say his patients is wearing thin and I understand, but he’s not the one enduring the pain anxiety of coping with the possibility of death. I can’t help but feel somewhat abandoned. Am I wrong in feeling this way?

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CA

Community Member

24 days ago

Your feelings are completely valid - cancer treatment is incredibly challenging, and it's natural to need ongoing support even when those around you may be feeling stretched thin. Many cancer patients experience similar feelings when their support systems become overwhelmed, and it doesn't make you wrong for needing that continued emotional connection during such a difficult time. Consider having an open conversation about both of your needs during this journey, as caregivers also face their own struggles that might affect how they're able to show support.

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AH

Community Member

22 days ago

Hi, Corliss, Mine was Primary B Cell NHL with a week of in-hospital Chemo every 6 weeks. I’d just like to say that different family members reacted in different ways, some of them surprising. It helps to remember that they are just human, and some are more able to give love and support than others. Receive gladly what your husband can give and not what he can’t, and look to God for the rest; He will never let you down. I am in full remission now, and am hoping the same outcome for you!

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