How can I stay positive when cancer is straining my relationship?

Cancer can put tremendous pressure on relationships, and it's completely natural to feel this strain. Many people in this community have found that open communication about needs and boundaries, along with patience for both yourself and your partner, can help navigate these challenging times. Consider reaching out to a counselor who specializes in relationships affected by serious illness, as they can provide valuable strategies for maintaining connection during difficult periods.

Monique, your health, happiness and peace is Paramount! Do not feel bad or guilty if you have to reduce your circle. Having people around you that help and support you will reduce your stress and promote healing.

Hi Monique. I am new to this forum. I was originally diagnosed 2008. With breast cancer. HER2 POSITION. My relationship became strained at that time. Libido was in the gutter and the pain from the tamxifen made it worse. I took it upon myself to stop the tamxifen against oncology advice. But wanted to try to keep my marriage together. 2020. Breast cancer came back. Now in lymph nodes Long story short I am now in the process of getting divorced. After 32 yrs . Needing to put myself first My marriage was strained, but he showed no concern for me. My health. And only put his needs first . I did what I did for my mental health. I m surrounding myself with those who truly care Bout me And I have joined this platform to help me continue to be positive. Sending much stenght your way. Sending positive thoughts.