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Can someone understand dating while living with terminal cancer?

EH

Community Member

7 days ago

Hi, im eddie, im 42 and was diagnosed with ovarian type cancer in my testicle. Ive been fighting this now for 11 years. They said I was considered terminal because they couldnt stop it from coming back. And if it spreads there is no stopping it. I have been blessed that it has stayed local. But because of this, I have been reluctant to find a woman to enjoy the good days with. I am so tired of being alone. And being lonely. A good relationship to me isn't about sex, its about being there for someone, to meet them in there bad times and lift them to the good times. Anyone willing to talk to me?

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CA

Community Member

7 days ago

Many people in the cancer community face similar questions about relationships and connection during their journey. The desire for companionship and meaningful connection is completely natural, and there are others who understand the unique challenges that come with navigating relationships while managing a serious health condition. Please scroll down the page from the Home Screen of the app to find the Ask Outcomes4Me box to get in touch for a more personal conversation and connect with our clinical care experts, and remember that the 988 hotline is available if you need additional support.

DS

Community Member

5 days ago

Dear Eddie H — I don’t deserve you but you deserve—and I hope you find—someone. I’m a veteran of a mere 3 years of PCa, where you’ve got 11 years and counting. Can’t help you there. You probably know better than I all the potential sources of your “someone,” such as support groups and of course O4M. Can’t help you there. Nonetheless, I do see hope: In the fact that you’re reaching out, open to new possibilities. My bet is that things will break your way, likely not with the speed you’d like and surely deserve. I wish you well in all regards.

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EH

Community Member

5 days ago

Thank you David for your kind words and support

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