Should I pursue breast reconstruction after multiple failed surgeries?

Had stage 2 b invasive ductal breast cancel ( left breast had 4 tumors and lymph node involvement. Right said negative for cancer but had one lymph node removed). Double mastectomies in Nov 3023. ( dbl mastectomies due to history of ductal polyps on left side in 2017 and rt side in 2019) Planned reconstruction. But life had other plans. Had a second surgery 2 weeks later to remove expander because of tissue necrosis from surgery and the aggressive removal of cancer from the surgical oncologist. The plastic surgeon said just not a lot of good tissue left to make a primary closure successful. I had to heal a wound for 2 mos with daily dressing changes but it healed. Right side healed fine. So had a latiisimus dorsi flap on left side in April 2024 to start reconstruction and put the expander in again. After a year of problems and 5 more surgeries. I had both expanders removed One in August. And one in Nov 2024. Have n been healing and continuing to see surgeon for review of my progress. I was placed on letrazole for 10 yrs. And also on verzenio for 2 yrs since my oncotype number was 13 and it was found in my left lymph nodes. My question is. Should I continue to explains reconstruction and who or where (if any) is a place for second opinion. I live in a city where the only olastic surgeon that will see me is the one I am going to. The others don’t want me as I bring them a challenge. I am going to finish verzenio in May 2026 I feel I should wait til then or a little later to do surgery. My oncologist agreed. Even though there is no proof of problems healing with verzenio. But I want to feel whole. Right now I have a wired shape. My regret for not asking or being told of the problems with reconstruction. Has anyone else had any of these problems. And who did you see and what did they recommend. Prayers for some answers.