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Should I pursue breast reconstruction after multiple failed surgeries?

RP

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4 days ago

Had stage 2 b invasive ductal breast cancel ( left breast had 4 tumors and lymph node involvement. Right said negative for cancer but had one lymph node removed). Double mastectomies in Nov 3023. ( dbl mastectomies due to history of ductal polyps on left side in 2017 and rt side in 2019) Planned reconstruction. But life had other plans. Had a second surgery 2 weeks later to remove expander because of tissue necrosis from surgery and the aggressive removal of cancer from the surgical oncologist. The plastic surgeon said just not a lot of good tissue left to make a primary closure successful. I had to heal a wound for 2 mos with daily dressing changes but it healed. Right side healed fine. So had a latiisimus dorsi flap on left side in April 2024 to start reconstruction and put the expander in again. After a year of problems and 5 more surgeries. I had both expanders removed One in August. And one in Nov 2024. Have n been healing and continuing to see surgeon for review of my progress. I was placed on letrazole for 10 yrs. And also on verzenio for 2 yrs since my oncotype number was 13 and it was found in my left lymph nodes. My question is. Should I continue to explains reconstruction and who or where (if any) is a place for second opinion. I live in a city where the only olastic surgeon that will see me is the one I am going to. The others don’t want me as I bring them a challenge. I am going to finish verzenio in May 2026 I feel I should wait til then or a little later to do surgery. My oncologist agreed. Even though there is no proof of problems healing with verzenio. But I want to feel whole. Right now I have a wired shape. My regret for not asking or being told of the problems with reconstruction. Has anyone else had any of these problems. And who did you see and what did they recommend. Prayers for some answers.

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How to rebuild immune system and prevent hair loss after multiple cancers?

DG

Community Member

10 days ago

Hi i had 3 cancers 1st one 3rd stage uterine cancer had a full hysterectomy at 50 right when menopause hit that is another story anyhow the Dr did a biopsy on all my organs while doing hysterectomy without my consent he spilled it on my lympnodes on hip so i trusted in the Drs to save me help me . I had to do chemo and radiation i wasnt even healed from the surgery so i said its my body i will not do both treatment at same time also i will start chemo first after i completely healed up from surgery , as i started chemo i met and researched about cancer went to a wellness retreat learn more and i also learned enough to not finish my chemo and denied radiation, i was scared and did not trust the Dr, s that was my so called team they just making $$ another dallor , then soon after i was done i was told to go get colonastify for my age i was reluctant to do it i was thinking there going to put cancer up me while im down and i was very scared , sure enough i went home in tears scared for my life telling my husband i knew it i told you that was going to happen i had colon cancer had made sure i wasnt going to have open surgery so i got microscopel surgery everything went well i geuss didnt do any pharma treatment i wouldnt of even if i was told to . After learning so much hearing rumors of population control and more. 8yrs later im getting a MRI for hip replacment they spotted a mesh in my colon reacurring colon cancer i was referred by the chemo Dr to a buddy of his that does colons well that Dr was really not paying attetion to my fears and needs he said he had to remove my colon i said he out of his mind and no way will i let him do that after that i was deafly scared got so sick depressed my husband decides to leave me at this point i said let nature take its course before i walk around with a shit bag hanging out my stomack so i got a second opinion san Francisco cancer center she ask what i wanted i said just cut that piece of cancer out and leave it at that . Well its been almost 2 yrs i get scared sometimes i pray i never have to face cancer again . Only thing now im losing hair going bald a immune deficiency. Is there a natural way in helping building my humune system up to normal or loss of my hair. Diets to stick to keep colon clean ??

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