Why won't anyone help with my mastectomy recovery pain and healing?

I'm sorry, for what you're going through

Wow I sure hate that for you . Yes we care . Your rant was long over due My suggestion would be to go to an ER and tell them your chest is killing you . Start there . Don’t go into detail other than the questions they ask you . Just stay silent Except for mentioning the pain . And when they ask …. Mention the date and when you first felt something was wrong Dont go into detail about blaming just answer what they ask Hopefully you will get admitted Don’t mention cigarettes until you have a good nurse assigned to you and tell her you need a nicotine patch ( they help just like a cig ) If you cant get a patch, ask for your Valium and extra because you can’t smoke . Pray you get admitted and that will help hold your oncologist accountable. When your insurance calls you , answer the phone for the survey . Survey these doctors and staff every time , This is a way to use your voice . Hope this helps .

I quit smoking in 1999 after about the 50th time I tried. If I even thought about quitting I would get so anxious I would chain smoke for hours. I totally understand your struggle, it is very hard. I am so sorry for what you are going through with your care team...it's not right. One thing that helped me quit was taking Welbutrin. It's an anti-depressant but I heard someone saying they used it to quit smoking. My doctor prescribed it for me (I really needed to be on it anyway for depression). Anyway, I still had to want to quit and make habit changes. For example I normally entered work through a door that was right next to a bench where I took all my cigarette breaks. I started using a different door. I found different ways to do things that had a strong association to smoking. The Welbutrin took the edge off though, got rid of the panic and anxiety I felt every time I tried to quit. You might want to visit your PCP and see if it's an option for you. Im glad you posted here..we are sympathetic, we care, and we are rooting for you ❤️

It might be worthwhile to see an orthopedic specialist or pain management specialist for your neck pain. Ask your pcp for a referral.

You should go and see a neurosurgeon for you cervical and spine issue

I second going to the ER. That's how I got diagnosed... after months and 3 pelvic exams, no one could help me. Finally, I was in so much pain that I went to the ER, and they did a CT with contrast. If it weren't for that, I have no idea how much longer I would have suffered.

I am so sorry for what you are going through! Can't imagine how frustrated you must be. I would certainly consider changing my primary care physician if he had the attitude your does. Addressing pain is difficult, but the primary care doc should address it. I had chronic pain after a surgery and went to a pain specialist. Your oncologist should be able to recommend. I week pray for you.

Praying for you and for better pain management from your oncologist.

See a Functional Doctor. They help heal from the cell level and a good chiropractor.

My heart feels for you. Everything that I die in my care was being exceptionally persistent from my own advocacy. Find another doctor, find another oncologist, definitely when the chiropractor for your neck issues. Rant all you wish to. We understand… As we're all going through too. I find it incredible hurtful, and frustrating. There are so many care practitioners that do not seem to comprehend that the pain is real, and it makes it very difficult to live one's life. Sending you a prayer (if that is OK I don't want to place my relief faith on anyone), along with healing thoughts, virtual hugs and love.

I hear you and I won’t judge you for smoking. It’s hard enough to quit when you’re not in constant pain. It’s awful that you aren’t getting the support you need from any of your doctors. I had a double mastectomy 3 weeks ago and I’m still in much more pain than I anticipated. I’m pretty old (75) and I’ve learned the hard way that some doctors just don’t cut it. Find new ones. I know that’s hard and still a roll of the dice, but it sounds necessary. A chiropractor may be a good idea. I hope you find the help you need soon. Pain is horrible. Let us know how you’re doing.

Sorry for what youre going through sending prayers

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My heart breaks for you. I pray you find comfort from the pain

This is the place to rant…complain if you must until you get the right attention. I’m sorry you’re going through this…understanding your anxieties..but God hears you…God sees you…educate and advocate for your needs . Be brave…you’re a Soulja! ❤️🙏

Like some others have suggested, shop around for different medical services and support. Keep looking until you feel like you are going to receive the treatment that will help you and your entire situation. Hang in there. Take one day at a time.

that is what we're here for… To listen you listened to… Sending you hug and healing thoughts in the middle of all of this student have to go through two major surgery kind of scare me but gotta keep going you take care of yourself please

We moved all smoking outside. I quit going outside because of my depression and somehow quit smoking. But please take it 1 hurdle at a time.