Newly Diagnosed with Breast Cancer: Seeking Advice and Support

Daisy, I would ask to have a genetic test, and ask as many questions as you can, since your sister had it. Find out what type you have. The American Cancer Society website has lots of information. Good luck.

Yes I had the genetic test done and it was negative interestingly my sister had it also and she did not have the gene either

I am in the same boat. I had the lumpectomy, at that time we were not sure it was cancer. So now I am having DMX. I can’t handle the stress of the recurrence. A personal decision. I was told lumpectomy with radiation and blockers would be the recommended action. They say small chance of recurrence. dMX makes it smaller. Definitely a personal choice and neither is easy.

I had a lumpectomy followed by 8 chemo treatments followed by 8 weeks of daily radiation. Chemo wasn't too bad ... Not as bad as I expected. Radiation was extremely uncomfortable. I was horribly burned by the end. 5 year survivor now ... Recently diagnosed with kidney cancer. Partial nephrectomy scheduled for October 6.

Your feelings about the upcoming surgery and treatment are completely understandable, especially given your family history. Many people in this community have walked a similar path and found that connecting with others who truly understand can make a real difference during this challenging time. Consider sharing specific questions about recovery or what to expect - there are many experienced members here who can offer practical insights about the journey ahead.