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3 months agoI saw my oncologist today. She gave me somewhat good news. Pathology from surgery No cancer found in any other part of body after removal of the cancer in my breast. However she wants me to have chemo and radiation? Just in case and I am having trouble with putting myself through this at age of 72. Tomorrow is not promised to any one. Am I being realistic or just afraid of the unknown? Your thoughts..
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This is such a difficult decision that many face after receiving mixed news - it's completely understandable to feel conflicted about additional treatment when the surgery results were encouraging. These feelings about weighing treatment benefits against quality of life concerns are very common and valid. Consider discussing your specific concerns and values with your oncology team, and perhaps seeking a second opinion if it would help you feel more confident in whatever decision feels right for you.
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3 months agoCorliss I start chemo Monday and I also having trouble with it but everyone I talk to says it is over quicker than we think we fear whatever don’t know and we don’t know how we will react to the chemo once we know we can deal and get thru it. The more I read here of tge younger women here with young kids they are caring for I decided if they can get thru it I can too. We got this Corliss 💪
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3 months agoThanks for your support, yes we can.
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3 months agoI have so many other health issues that I’m just afraid of what the side effects will be.
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2 months agoI just had a lumpectomy on the 25th of September. I’m waiting for path results and know I will be going through the same feelings as you.
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2 months agoThis is such a difficult decision that many face after receiving mixed news - it's completely understandable to feel conflicted about additional treatment when the surgery results were encouraging. These feelings about weighing treatment benefits against quality of life concerns are very common and valid. Consider discussing your specific concerns and values with your oncology team, and perhaps seeking a second opinion if it would help you feel more confident in whatever decision feels right for you.
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