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7 days agohad a visit with my oncologist yesterday for treatment assessment. Next chemo is the 26th. Other than tired, incontinence and random constipation it wasn't bad. But yesterday he told me by next weekend my hair will start falling out and eventually my eyebrows, eyelashes and any hair anywhere will be gone. This freaks me more than chemo. I have gotten some cute coverings and I realize it will grow back but this truly states to the world that I have cancer. I have told close friends and family but not others. Please give me tips to make this easier
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6 days agoHair loss from chemotherapy is often one of the most emotionally challenging side effects because it's such a visible reminder of treatment. Many find that preparing beforehand - like getting a shorter haircut, shopping for scarves or hats, or even having a "head shaving party" with loved ones - can help regain some sense of control during this difficult time. Remember that sharing your cancer journey is entirely your choice, and there's no timeline you need to follow for telling others.
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6 days agoThe suggestion about preparing beforehand is so helpful - I'd also add that some people find it comforting to take photos of their hair before it falls out, or even save a small lock as a keepsake to remind themselves this is temporary.
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6 days agoI did scalp cooling and actually kept quite a bit of hair, so never had to look at myself as a bald woman during the entire process
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6 days agoAlso, I’m about three months past the last treatment and my eyebrows and eyelashes have grown back
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6 days agoLeslie J thank you! I am having my third chemotherapy next week and am doing scalp cooling. The infusion nurses do not seem to be big fans of the therapy so I truly appreciate a positive review. Suzanne, I had long hair and cut it to a chin length bob this week. I've lost about 60% of my hair. The thought of cutting it was so much worse than the experience, it actually was a relief. I am going to the wig shop on Wednesday to try them on in case I need one. I have a small head circumference so I am very leary of ordering one online. I have a couple beanies and a hat I ordered, also a bunch of scarves that received when my sister died of endometrial cancer, so at this point it will be, let's see what happens. My retirement side gig was selling hair accessories so I also had trouble accepting the hair loss. Hugs, looks like we're at the same point in our journeys.
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6 days agoI actually got some nice inexpensive wigs from qvc. Short bobs and everyone thinks they look great!
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6 days agoI am not sure if I will get a wig but our local Cancer Society has free wigs, hats, mastectomy bras, pretty much anything you might need and it's free. They also give you 6 bottles of Boost or other drinks a week. You might check with your local Cancer Society and see if they do the same.
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6 days agoand thank you all for your support.
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4 days agoI am on the same path and losing my glorious hair is the worst. I almost made the decision to take my chances, but if cancer returns no recourse.
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4 days agoToday's it was really falling out so my hairdresser is coming to my house tomorrow afternoon and cut my hair really short - delaying the inevitable i guess. I cannot express how much this sucks.
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4 days agoAgree, not a path I would wish on anyone. I am on Chemotherapy infusion #3 this week and am already ready to be done with it. I am very blessed, I have had few side effects but my new best friend, Freddy Fatigue, is making it rough.
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4 days agomy 2nd chemo is the 26th, lack of appetite is one of my issues. I had some fatigue last chemo, and I live alone with my cat Boo. I have a problem taking a nap, like there is something I should be doing. But it sounds like fatigue will make me nap. I thank God that there are only 6 cycles of chemo - Paclitaxel, Carboplatin and Keytruda. But i will receive Keytruda for 2 years as a maintenance I guess. I do have 25 radiation treatments to look forward to also. I keep reminding myself that it could be so much worse.
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4 days agoI have "another" dumb question - infusions #1 some nausea, tired, I'm thinking hey not so bad. But then I reada few other posts and people talking about 2nd and 3rd and how bad they felt . Was i doing a rainbow and puppies moment when I thought it would be the same way each time?
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3 days agoYou take control and empower yourself. Make the appointment for the head shave. Pick out some beautiful head wraps and even a wig if you want to go that route. I took a friend to a wig fitting. It didn't bother me as much as I thought it would. It's only hair and doesn't define who you are.
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2 days agoI did eyebrow tattoos. Quality ones can look very real. Check out My Two Brows. They come in multiple colors, sizes, and shapes.
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2 days agothanks, I will check it out!
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