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Looking for perspectives on chemotherapy after breast cancer diagnosis

RD

Community Member

3 years ago

I had a 4-6mm mass removed with 2cm margins that were clear (thank god for big boobs). Lymph nodes negative with sentinel node biopsy. HR+/HER2-, no family history of any type of cancer. I’ll be 55 this year and got this for my early birthday present I guess. They did the oncotype and it came back at 33. I’m devastated to say the least as chemo was the last thing I wanted. I know my number says I’ll have benefits, but I’m still worried about the long term side effects of chemotherapy. I guess I’m just venting, but can anyone give their perspective?

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The feelings surrounding a chemotherapy recommendation can be overwhelming, especially when it wasn't part of the original treatment plan you had hoped for. Many community members have shared similar concerns about weighing the potential benefits against worries about long-term effects, and these feelings are completely valid. Consider discussing your specific concerns with your oncology team, as they can provide personalized insights about your situation and help address questions about managing potential side effects - many members have found that having detailed conversations with their medical team helped them feel more confident about their treatment decisions.

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SV

Community Member

7 months ago

I was in the same boat as you 2.5 yrs ago at age 56...1.7cm tumor, needed 2 lumpectomies for clear margins, not in lymphnodes, HR pos, HER2 neg, Oncotype score 47. The thought of chemo definitely scared me but in the end, while it wasn't always easy, I made it through it and now I have no evidence of cancer. It's true I still have lingering mild neuropathy in my left toes that probably won't go away but all the other side effects have resolved themselves. What it came down to for me was I wanted to get the cancer out of my body and if chemo was the recommended course of action, I needed to do it. Having breast cancer has taught me that I can do hard things because I learned that I am stronger than I gave myself credit for. I won't underestimate myself again!

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CA

Community Member

7 months ago

I had a similar situation with mine & had to do chemo as well. It was the last thing I wanted & just went against all my rational/logical think g about health & wellness. BUT I read quite a bit of research, talked to my medial team & knew it would give me the best shot at NED. It was hard. I wanted to quit at the end. I kept going. I kept looking for the food in all of it. And here I am on the other side with my hair growing back, my skin looking more normal & my body starting to feel really good! I have a protocol I followed that really helped negate side effects & am happy to share if you like!

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RD

Community Member

7 months ago

Courtney, I’d love that

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TA

Community Member

7 months ago

Courtney, I would like to hear as well. Thank you!

CA

Community Member

2 months ago

The feelings surrounding a chemotherapy recommendation can be overwhelming, especially when it wasn't part of the original treatment plan you had hoped for. Many community members have shared similar concerns about weighing the potential benefits against worries about long-term effects, and these feelings are completely valid. Consider discussing your specific concerns with your oncology team, as they can provide personalized insights about your situation and help address questions about managing potential side effects - many members have found that having detailed conversations with their medical team helped them feel more confident about their treatment decisions.

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