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3 months agoI was just in radiation therapy and lying on the table and just started crying. I never cried for myself since I was diagnosed. Is this normal?
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It's completely normal to have emotional moments during cancer treatment, even if tears haven't come before. Many people find that certain moments during treatment can bring up feelings that have been held inside. The treatment environment and taking time to rest on the table can sometimes create space for emotions to surface naturally. This kind of emotional release is a common part of the cancer journey, and there's nothing wrong with having these feelings during such a significant time in treatment.
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3 months agoJust feeling sorry for myself I guess.
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3 months agoI think the reason i didn’t cry was because i was too busy panicking. So crying is probably normal.
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3 months agoI’ve kind of just been doing what they said I had to do. On 21 of 28 radiation doses. Just really tired. I’m close to it being over. But idk. Hope I can do 7 more
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3 months agoAlready had mastectomy so idk
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3 months agoCrying is perfectly normal. You're overwhelmed which is also normal. It's not feeling sorry for yourself it's part of greiving the loss the fear the changes to your body mind and soul. We're here when you need to talk🙂
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3 months agoThe whole process is very overwhelming. Don't feel bad about crying. Let it go when you need to. You have to let it out. I've never been an emotional person and though I have toughed this whole journey out like 'a badass' according to my friends/family I had my random moments too. I'm sure anyone who has gone through this can relate. And don't let anyone around you judge you for it. You've earned it!
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3 months agoTears are a needed release - they are gifts to help us cope. Embrace the tears ladies
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3 months agoDon't feel bad for crying. I totally had a panic attack. The day of my double mastectomy, doctor had to calm me down and then radiation. My 1st day I cried. Don't let anyone make you feel bad because you cried. This is a lot a lot. That's all I can say, so it's okay to cry. And it makes you feel better. I hope you're feeling better
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2 months agoPlease give yourself grace. You are not feeling sorry for yourself. Cancer sucks and it's complicated, and no one understands, even if one has gone thru it before. My circumstances in my home life and finances, and fear of being alone are mine, and I cry, 2 months post radition. Some days, I'm in awe of the women have done this before me. My point is, just like there are no two exact snow flakes or fingerprints, no one's journey is the same as someone our own.
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2 months agoThank you
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2 months agoYou are well able to have sympathy for yourself... just like you do for others!!...self-love is very important during this journey.
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2 months agoDid they give you guys a choice between partial or whole breast radiation? I’m very nervous to start.
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2 months agoI had a mastectomy and 28 days radiation
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2 months agoThey stuck me back on ibrance (was on back in march, platelets fell to 30. Had to be taken off) now I’m back on it platelets fell again am short of breath and have bruises deep purple/black on both arms. Saw dr today, isn’t concerned. Idk why
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2 months agoDid you tell doc you were short of breath?
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2 months agoYes…… He said nothing
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2 months agoIt's completely normal to have emotional moments during cancer treatment, even if tears haven't come before. Many people find that certain moments during treatment can bring up feelings that have been held inside. The treatment environment and taking time to rest on the table can sometimes create space for emotions to surface naturally. This kind of emotional release is a common part of the cancer journey, and there's nothing wrong with having these feelings during such a significant time in treatment.
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a month agoHi it’s normal to get emotional. I lost my Mom 51/2 yrs. ago and I ask her and my Dad to keep their hands on me every night. And of course I too start crying cause I miss them so. But I guess that’s all part of life.
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