Newly Diagnosed with Breast Cancer: Seeking Support and Strength

Im in the same situation as you, I have a little girls she’s turning 6 on Monday, I’m very nervous, I’m a single mom I’m the one who takes her to school everyday and pick her up, I’m trying to be positive I don’t want her to worry.

Martha, my son is 6. Stay strong it is easier said than done, have faith and if you ever need to talk, you have an ear.

@Alicia P I just found out yesterday that I have a second lump in the same breast next to each other, we’re doing an ultrasound/MRI tomorrow 😬

@Martha D I am sorry to hear that. I have the same issue. The one lump that I can feel and a second one that is smaller that only the ultrasound picked up on. I have my porta cath surgery scheduled for next Wednesday because my doc wants me to do chemo first. I am scared but I keep on praying.

I have been diagnosed with breast cancer on March 13th. I too was afraid at first but my faith has me embracing what life has given me. I find gratitude in my situation that I caught it early and that it's not hereditary. my next appointment to do a CT scan is April 21st the wait time was long but I kept myself busy. I currently repeat this prayer God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things that I can and the wisdom to know the difference. Hopefully this helps you.

@Alicia P, I’m getting my port in this Friday and I start chemotherapy on Monday! This is my number if you want to connect 😊 512-2172294 I live in Austin.

I also have a 6 y/o Girl. Was diagnosed on 3/31.

@Maria s let’s connect!

Yes. Can I text you on what's app?

My number is 4072254644.

I had HER2+, stage 2 (2.5cm) in right breast - first had chemotherapy (12 wks)+ immunotherapy (Herceptin/Perjeta) to shrink the cancer (which worked), then surgery (lumpectomy + reconstruction + lymph node biopsy), then radiation. Continued immunotherapy for total of 1 year (recently done). Still going to Physical Therapy weekly for cording (due to lymph node removal). Ask questions - to make sure you understand options and treatment plan. I felt better once I had a treatment plan. Have notes written out when you go to appointments (so you don’t forget). Write notes during/after appointments. It’s good to have someone come with you to initial doctor appts. Try to see a Nutritionist early on - I needed more protein and to reduce sugar! Also, drink water! Self-care is very important - see if support groups, yoga, qigong, massage, talks, etc, are available at your cancer center. I still go to the weekly BC yoga class!! Walking is wonderful - really helped me!!

@ Martha D. Ty

Your advice is helpful

Finding yourself in this position can feel overwhelming, especially when balancing your own fears with wanting to stay strong for your family. Many people in this community have walked a similar path and found that connecting with others who truly understand can provide comfort and practical insights during treatment. This community is here to support you through each step of your journey, and sharing your experiences - both the challenging moments and small victories - can help both you and others facing similar situations.