Newly Diagnosed with Breast Cancer: Seeking Support and Information

Hello, new member here. I'm 54 years old and have had annual mammos since I was 34. There is no history of cancer in my family on my mom's side. However, my dad is from Puerto Rico, and I never met and family on his side. So, I have no idea of cancer history. Is there genetic testing they can do for the unknown? Onto my story... My normal annual mammo was March 22. I waited 2 weeks before the hospital baked to set a second appt. for additional mammo pics of left breast and left armpit. Completed 4/8/24. The same day, the radiologist reviewed and requested an ultrasound. The same day, the radiologist ordered 2 biopsies. Both of those completed 4/10/24. On 4/12/24. My primary Dr. called me to come into the office. It's funny how you know before you "know." My beats cancer type is invasive ductal carcinoma (IDC). My first appt with an oncologist is 4/18/24. This seems like it is moving super fast. I'm so very scared. My husband lost his first wife to ovarian cancer. She only lived six months once they found out. I feel so horrible to put him through this again. He's been so quiet. He's so supportive. He tells me he lives me no matter what.