How do you cope when you feel scared and alone after breast cancer diagnosis?
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a month agoI was diagnosed with breast cancer on June 3rd, I haven't started treatments yet but have had a biopsy, mri, ctscan, and next week, a bone scan. Im HERS2+ (HR+). I have 2 large masses and some small masses in my right breast with it mastasized to my lymph nodes under my arm, and I just found that I have a few small nodules in my right lung which may or may not be cancerous. I am petrified to what is going to happen. It's funny how horrifying this is to me considering I was born with Congenital Hydrocephalus and have had close to 60 brain surgeries to revise and replace 2 shunts throughout my 53 years and another brain surgery doesn't faze me. I don't have much support, at least not the kind I need most of time, my loved ones are there for me and understanding, but it doesn't seem to register with them how completely petrified I am, and sometimes a hug or embrace to let me cry and scream is all I want.
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a month agoThe fear you're experiencing after this diagnosis is completely understandable, and many in this community know that overwhelming feeling of being scared despite having incredible strength from facing other serious health challenges. Finding ways to cope often includes connecting with others who truly understand what you're going through, seeking professional support when needed, and being patient with loved ones who may not fully grasp the depth of your fear but still care deeply about you. This community is here to listen and support you through this difficult time.
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a month agoNicole I have had MBC since 2024 There are a lot of good medicine available for breast cancer. You have already been through so much so You are a strong person. Whatever your lung results are don’t give up hope. I know this is very scary. I had a huge mass in my right breast and cancerous nodules in both lungs. Most of which have disappeared and shrink down considerably so I am stable right now. Stick with this awesome community. You will find strength and understanding. Whatever your faith is pray hard and take care of yourself. Do you have a good relationship with your doctor? That helps a lot. Prayers are going out to you for healing!
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a month agoHow are you Nicole?
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17 days agoI would give you a big hug!! We Italians are very emotional and demonstrative. I was recently diagnosed also. My husband has early dementia and Parkinson's. I'm just not sure how much help he will be. My dog will be my comfort through this. I feel better when I am outside walking her. I am praying for you, Nicole. ❤️
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14 days agoDiagnosed the end of May. First stage B. Cancer. I had both breasts removed. My mom died from this. I found out in a Pet scan. No treatment as of yet. I’m so nervous I can’t concentrate
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14 days agoI’m really sorry to hear that.
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14 days agoSending hugs and love to you 🫠
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13 days agoNo long walks for me today....too much smoke. I am all stuffy now. Sherri, try to find what gives you peace. I am praying for you, also.
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