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a month agoHi, I'm going insane waiting for for pathology report, what treatment I will have. I was diagnosed IDC. My family doesn't understand what I'm going through. I had lumpectomy surgery on September 10th. Been feeling a little tired and take nap.
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a month agoDear Christa D — Here’s some verbal support! “Insane” with waiting? I know whereof you speak. Family doesn’t understand? I know whereof you speak. I can’t cure or fix anything, but I extend my verbal support, as I’m sure the legions of O4M commenters and posters do as well. I hope you can draw strength from knowing that THEY truly do understand; they’ve been through what you’re going through. Final thought: Take those naps! As many and as often as possible. There’s strength in rest and sleep and you can’t get too much of it.
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a month agoPathology results typically take 7-10 business days, though some facilities may take up to two weeks depending on the specific tests needed. The waiting period can feel overwhelming, and it's completely natural to feel anxious during this time - many people in this community have shared similar feelings about the uncertainty. Consider reaching out to the surgeon's office if it's been longer than expected, as they can often provide updates on timing or help connect you with support resources during this challenging wait.
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a month agoNap, do a small project. Go to your favorite place to visit. Hope time flys for you.!
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24 days agoAlthough family is the very important factor at times like this you’ll find the most comfort in Prayer Christa.. The more you feel anxious the harder you pray to Our Lord and Savior.. I’ll be praying for daily God Bless Thomas O
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13 days agoI think resting ot napping is one of the good ways to help you heal. I'm family doesn't understand either. I have mycosis fungoides and if I even get stressed I break out ugh. My doctor is a dermatologist and she won't give me the things that do work. Her first reaction is radiation. I think I need a good onocoligist.
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11 days agoDear Robbe — Good for you!! I completely understand and agree with all you say. Rest: there’s no such thing as too much. Family: They can’t understand cancer till they have it. Things that work: All of my docs have been against them for all three years of my cancer journey to date, which is why I had to go outside the medical-industrial complex to concierge medicine (no insurance, all out of pocket) to get what works. Good oncologist: I hope you find one. I haven’t.
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11 days agoI’m sorry to say this but it only has to do with the MONEY period.. Ask yourself what would happen if they found a cure for this disease folks..? HUNDREDS of BILLIONS per year would stop flowing.. We’re pretty lucky compared to the CHILDREN dealing with this who have no clue what’s happening to them.. All they know is that they DON’T FEEL GOOD.. I beg everyone here to PRAY FOR THE CHILDREN.. Even if you don’t want to put your faith in prayer for yourself please do it for children … Give thanks for each day we get to spend with our loved ones, give thanks for all our blessings and PRAISE Our Lord.. God Bless Thomas O
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10 days agoAbsoultely I feel deeply for anyone especially children having cancer which I just dont understand why. I pray for everyone to survive this journey its long and hard but we may get have a few rewards on the way. God bless everyone.
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