How do I cope with "what if" thoughts after losing my wife to cancer?

The "what if" thoughts that come with grief are incredibly painful but also a natural part of processing such a profound loss. These feelings show how deeply you cared, and while it's impossible to know what different timing or decisions might have changed, carrying guilt over circumstances beyond your control only adds to an already heavy burden. Many others in this community have walked through similar struggles with grief and those overwhelming questions - sharing here and connecting with others who understand can provide comfort during this difficult time.