How do I handle abusive relationships during cancer treatment?

This takes incredible courage to prioritize safety during such a vulnerable time. Leaving an abusive situation while managing cancer treatment is one of the hardest decisions anyone can face. Many cancer patients find themselves in similar situations where treatment stress brings out the worst in relationships, and finding safe housing while continuing care can feel overwhelming but is absolutely the right choice for healing.

Hey Nicole, I'm sooo glad you were able to escape with your life! I'm 76 and have stage 3b NSCLC, non-small cell lung cancer. I'm currently recovering immunotherapy for a total of two years. My last treatment is scheduled for Feb. The survival rate at five years is about 20 to 44%. I have two daughters and I have had many serious conversations with them from a very early age about abusive relationships and the importance of getting out early! Once abusive behavior starts, it never gets better! The best and safest time to get away is the first time it starts. You cannot allow yourself to be abused! I certainly don't advocate leaving a relationship at the first sign of disagreement because relationships require hard work to be successful but there is a very clear line between disagreeing and being able to communicate with your partner and being told that you don't have a say in decisions. I know and understand that love is a powerful force but sometimes we humans don't make the best decisions. That is the time to find your inner strength and take decisive action to preserve your future life 🧬! I'm very proud of you for being able to take care of yourself under such difficult circumstances. You are a strong 💪 woman and I wish you all the best moving forward. Wishing you lots of love and peace through your difficult road ahead.

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