Having nephrectomy tomorrow - how do you cope with surgery stress?
Community Member
18 hours agoMy nephrectomy, (praying for a partial) is scheduled for tomorrow morning. Have to report tomorrow morning no later than 6:00. My personal life decided to add to my stress. One of my cats had a very severe asthma attack yesterday morning and is going to board at the vets while I’m undergoing surgery and recovery. On the way back home my car gave out. The stress last night was unbelievable. I’m a widow and live alone with my 2 cats. The worst and longest night of my life. Did lots of things and decided to let go of everything and just devote my energy to fighting the best that has invaded my body and my life. The dam beast is even trying to take my sanity as well. The SOB is going to have a battle if it intends to F with me. Community, sorry for the long post. Just needed to say what was going through my being.
Community Member
13 hours agoSurgery stress is incredibly difficult, especially when life throws additional challenges your way at the same time. Many community members find that focusing breathing exercises, meditation apps, or talking with the medical team about concerns can help manage pre-surgery anxiety. Your fighting spirit and determination to focus your energy on healing shows incredible strength, and this community is here to support you through your journey.
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