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14 hours agoHELLP!! I had localized prostate cancer, after consulting and 2nd opinion had prostate removed 5 weeks ago. Robotic, went great. Pathology showed removal was correct decision. Question, getting better at holding but still leaking! Use “diapers” during day usually change 2 maybe 3 times. Use bigger one over night works great. Anyone with experience getting back to normal in peeing / leaking control please give me some ideas? Exercises, tools toys? Any recommendations? I don’t go back to urologist for 2 more months would like to be pretty much back to normal by then!! Help!!!
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11 hours agoDear James — The bad news from me is that I’m 2 years post-radiation plus ADT and my urinary issues have persisted all the while. The good news is that I’m age 77 and younger age is a huge factor in overcoming those issues. If you’re under 65 and exercise religiously you’ll see current problems abate and disappear. Also, I’ve gradually found ways of coping; eg, regulating fluid intake and finding cheap briefs that do a good job of containing and restraining, to the extent I don’t depend on Depends or any such product. Result is I can go 8 hours without “going” and leak at most a few drops. My experience says this: Be inventive and ignore urologists, who have book learning but zero useful practical advice.
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9 hours agoRecovery from incontinence after prostate surgery typically improves gradually over several months, with many patients seeing significant progress within 3-6 months, though everyone's timeline is different. Pelvic floor exercises (Kegel exercises) are commonly recommended to help strengthen the muscles that control urination - your healthcare team can provide specific guidance on proper technique and frequency when you see them next.
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