How to cope with surgery fears just days before the procedure?

Hello Margaret, I too have bladder cancer. I was diagnosed October 1 of 2025 as I was preparing for my first Turbt I fell and broke my right wrist and my right femur so that delayed things for a month or so I have had two of the (Turbts)whatever they call it Now I am waiting to be scheduled for the BCG treatments once a week for six weeks. I am a 87 yr old female. I will pray for you, Margaret, You are not alone.

It's completely natural to feel anxious before surgery, and these feelings are shared by many people in this community who have walked a similar path. Consider reaching out to your medical team about your concerns - they can often provide reassurance and help you understand what to expect, which may ease some of the worry you're experiencing right now.

I was recently de with stage 2 bladder cancer. Have not seen the surgeon yet. Had a Turbt. Now waiting for consultation to discuss options. I totally understand your fear. I feel it too. My thoughts and prayers are with you 💕🙏